okay well i really like this guy and i think he likes me 2 and i want to be less shy around him but i dont know how PLEASE HELP!
2007-01-19 05:28:34 · 14 answers · asked by brunettebabi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he likes you already than why change?
2007-01-19 05:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by kristen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know him already, I would guess the reason you are shy around him is because you are forcing yourself with expectation.
The key is to RELAX. Expect nothing from him and don't believe that every conversation or meeting will spontaneously erupt into a relationship or declaration of love. You will see that when you lower your expectation of a situation, you allow yourself to relax and be yourself.
Basically, breathe deep and be yourself.
2007-01-19 13:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that you are love machine and you can't afford to be shy. Just go ahead and grab the guy by the ball. Just kidding. You should let me know how you feel about him and hope for the best for him.
2007-01-19 13:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about things you think you may have in common. Even talking about the weather or the big football games happening this weekend. Do the same as you would do to some guy you have no feeling for. It should ease your shyness.
2007-01-19 13:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know where you are coming from i am shy around guys too i just hang out with them like with other friends and wait untill i get to know him better and untill i feel comforntable around him then i talk to him and find out if he likes me too then things lead on from there
2007-01-19 13:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, don't pretend to be someone else just to make him more comfortable around you.You should ask him out,just tell him you'd like to hang out with him and have a cup of coffee he'd really appreciate that if he likes you too.Hope I helped.!
2007-01-19 13:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and people will like you the way you are. Don't be shy and start a conversation about something not so important.
2007-01-19 13:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Joka B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wanna be what?
less shy around him..?
don't do that..that mr.right maybe liked u bcoz of ur shyness..
so act as u r..n BE MORE SHY AROUND HIM..
n he will like u more..
trust me.
lol.
2007-01-19 13:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by ryuzaki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make small talk about the weather or about a movie you want to see. so you can see what hes interested in
2007-01-19 13:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by allurluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I'm not the best in that category
2007-01-19 13:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by Remember Vietnam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act yourself, and don't think about ya'll liking each other
2007-01-19 13:31:41 · answer #11 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋