second time i took this girl out last week, with a 2 month gap between first and second date since the first one didnt go so well. She never answered my calls the first time just sent a text saying she was so busy. Ran into her again and went out with her last week. The date was awesome, I knew she had fun this time. I am interested in her more than she is in me, shes the kind of girl that gets lots of dates and only likes guys that can challenge her. I called her up on Tues, no answer but she did text me wednesday saying sorry she missed it. I was in class so couldnt call her but did last night again. Again no answer. Do you think i should wait for her to call me now or should i call her one more time. I do not want to seem desperate because it will turn her off. But i do not want to give up since she is a fun girl. What do you think i should do. Remember she is the type that plays hard to get and although i think she is a little interested i am starting to worry she isnt. Any advice?
2007-01-19 05:14:29 · 14 answers · asked by Italian Tiger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Way too many girls to worry about just one. She probably makes her life really busy on purpose. I've tried my own hand at "these types of girls". It's not just you they don't have time for.
Make room for her if she calls you back, but don't count on it. Just go for someone else.
I hate to tell you to "give up", but really, I know these types.
2007-01-19 05:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a week and then call her again. You don't want to fill up her answering machine then she'll think you have nothing better to do and you will seem desperate. If after that week and you still don't get an answer from her, then let it go, no one is worth the trouble. You just might miss the perfect girl waiting on the other one.
hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-19 05:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may or may not be interested. You've got to wet her palate. Call...but not for a date, just to find out how she is and to let her know you're fine. Tell her you've been really busy lately so you're sorry you lost contact for a while. Wait a while, even if she's interested she may take a while to contact you (she may in fact be really busy). Hopefully she'll contact soon (and hopefully your last date went as well as you said it did). If not, think about moving on. In fact dating others now may be a good idea (even if you're not that interested in them). It'll get her interested and distract you for a while.
2007-01-19 05:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her get back to you. If she doesn't call you back in a few days, chances are she's probably not that interested so don't waste your time. If she is the type to play games (playing hard to get)....that's not real mature behavior, so why would you want to be with someone like that. If you two had a good date and she enjoyed herself, she will return your call. If she doesn't, just let it go at that.... Good Luck.
2007-01-19 05:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, even "hard to get girls" who "like a challenge" will still show just enough interest so that you don't have to keep guessing whether or not they like you.
However, here's a question for you to consider:
Why are you persuing someone who has little if any interest in dating you? And why are you so willing to accept that you have to do "all of the work"?
2007-01-19 05:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see or speak to her ask her if she wants to go out again the next weekend-make sure to say that you already have plans for one of the days in the weekend. if she is the type to play hard to get she may need to see that others are interested before she decides she is interested too. but i warn you, if you have to do this to get her attention she is probably not worth it and you should find someone who appreciates you without the extra effort.
2007-01-19 05:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by super_adrienne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her one more time a week from the last time you called... then if she doesn't answer, wait for her to call. Don't do ALL of the chasing, then you will seem desperate for a date. Good luck!
2007-01-19 05:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're going to get this girl is by not calling her. I'm just like your crush, hard to get...the only way my boyfriend was able to get ahold of me was by playing like he didn't really care what I was doing or who I was with. This made him more intriuging to me and once we went out again I was head over heels...but only because he was sweet yet "to himself".
2007-01-19 05:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ally P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you wait a week before calling her back again. Girls dont like to be smuthered.
2007-01-19 05:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by aquarius2389 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't hear from her, I would wait a week before you call her again.
2007-01-19 05:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋