lately my boyfriend has been a bit off like not coming online to speak to me and doesnt come over to see me, i dont see him at school cus he doesnt want his brother to know about us so he completely ignores me, he hasnt been over in a week and gave me a really bad look today, do you think he still likes me cus he said he did the other day but its really upsetting me that he wont get in contact with me or anything..my friends tell me to dump him because they think it is out of order how he ignores me all the time at school, im the first person he has had a relationship with and he has like no idea! i really like him but i dont know what to do:'( what should i do dump him or ring him or what?
2007-01-19 05:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk it over. Why doesn't he want his bro to know... Is he ashamed?
2007-01-19 05:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, i would talk to him because there is no reason as to why he wouldn't "claim" you. But, like him not speaking to you and stuff seems to me as though he is a little 'stand off ish'. Those are signs that he really isn't feelin you as much as he says. Actions really do speak way louder than words, so if I were you, I'd dump him. If he really likes you then, he'll come back. good luck sweetie!
2007-01-19 13:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Stefi13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "He is just not that into you." It will really help give you incite on this situation. In the mean time, be honest with him. Do whatever you need to, to communicate that you aren't happy with how he is treating you. You are young, and deserve to be happy. If he can't do that than move on. Harsh I know! But it is true.
Read the book, and Good luck!
2007-01-19 13:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, he might be ignoring you at school and not telling his brother about you just so people will think he's single. Sounds like he's trying to leave the option open.
2007-01-19 13:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh, ring him and dump him!
Forget about him you are wasting precious time.
He might have no idea - but he soon will if he sees
you having fun with somebody else!!
2007-01-19 13:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 stop calling him your boyfriend & start calling somebody else dat. If he doesn't want his brother2 know dat u r goin out wit him then don't u think that his brother know something dat u don't know. Or He is cheating on u or he doesn't want to go out wit u
2007-01-19 13:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepie j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and talk to him as he may not know he's doing it all wrong. Then if nothing changes and you are unhappy, maybe its time to go.
2007-01-19 13:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-01-19 13:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋