ive been texting my player guy whom i havent seen in two months and he was replying and the latest reply was that he has missed me.So that statement softened me and i did text he that i miss hom too and stuff but he wouldnt reply,then i gave him a missed call and he called but he sounded indifferent and said that he is out of city but when hes back hell call me to go for a drink.next day i call him at home and he was there!i hunged up and i texted late at night 'You are a f...".In the morning he replied "Good mornig!",so i git even more pissed and texted you r an ***...A day after he texted me saying "where r u?ive missed late night swearing!" and i texted back bad things once more.Why is he playing with me if he doesnt wanna c me?
2007-01-19 04:59:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't pay any attention to him. By you getting mad and texting bad things to him, its satisfying his need to get a reaction from you. Just ignore him. He doesn't deserve you. Find someone who won't play you.
2007-01-19 05:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation and it only ends up with you being hurt. Have you read Greg Behrendts book He's Just Not That Into You? If not I suggest you do. Any man who misses you or cares about you would be with you. It may be very hard to kick him to the curb but do it for your own sake.
2007-01-19 13:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by brandeeteer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping his options open. He has someone else that he is entertaining full time. When things are a little "ify" with that person then he decides to contact you to keep you strung along. Basically positioning you to where whenever he's ready you'll be there. Do yourself a favor. Leave him alone. When he contacts you ignore it. It's a game. Unless you feel like playing then play along otherwise he can't play by himself.
2007-01-19 13:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by creolekitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if he is playing games then u need to know for sure on his lying but u have to go with your gut feeling and since its bothering u but u owe yourself to let go of him and be a stronger person anyways dont let him get the best of u and u owe it to yourself also to end it the sooner the better u will feel and u can move on to someone that will respect u and make u feel safe and no doubt in your mind u can be happy hes probuly lying because he think he can get away with it so good luck with that
2007-01-19 13:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insane you don't want to mess with a dude like that! he might show up at your house talking bout he miss you after you cursed him out last night. Block his number # quick his playing you hard.
2007-01-19 13:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by lilmissshorty30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is playing ya!
2007-01-19 13:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by emtb9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is banging another girl, and he wants to keep you on the back burner as a Plan B.
2007-01-19 13:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jack C 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you have not seen him in 2 months then he is not yours
2007-01-19 13:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
block his phone number...he's just trying to mess with your head because he is a sick bas**rd!
2007-01-19 13:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO USE SPELL CHECK.............AND BY THE WAY HOW OLD ARE YOU
2007-01-19 13:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by reba d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋