That I care about her more than just the physical,,
I have never felt the way I feel about her but I get the feeling that she thinks it’s just physical for me.
I mean the physical stuff is great and all (and we have tons of fun hanging out etc). but I want what we have to be more than just that. I’m not great with words but what is the best way to just show her?
She was really hurt by the guy she was with before and it is hard to gain her trust or get too close to her.
2007-01-19 04:57:49 · 8 answers · asked by JS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good way is to spend romantic times out together and not be intimate afterward...when she expects that tell her you would rather just hold her and cuddle...and you can kiss her all night long and stroke her hair and listen to her... (will be hard to refrain from being intimate with her if you really care about her...but it will pay off) moreover you can be intimate on other occassions..
she'll appreciate the fact that you want more than just to sleep with her...she'll see that you are totally into her
thanks for showing that there are some decent guys out there who are man enough to fall in love!! AWwww
2007-01-19 05:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make up for stupid things someone else did.
You can be considerate of her bad experience, but do not put too much emphasis on it... either she will decide to trust you or not.
Best way to gain trust is through actions, not words.
Best way to communicate feelings is through attitude and evidence. If she is that special, show her by being attentive, caring, listening, and then listening some more.
There will come a time to make your feelings clear. Write it on paper, make sure you can back up those words with action, and then read them aloud to her on a romantic date, which includes nothing more than hugging and gentle kissing (no frenchy action). No big money needs to be spent, a few sandwiches and drinks taken on a picnic alone is the kind of special togetherness that is needed. Go to a beautiful place/park/garden, and look at her more than the scenery.
2007-01-19 13:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know how to help you because i'm in the same thing. It is like she really loves you but she just wont get close to you becaues she has had a rough time. All i can tell you is just just keep trying and give her time, she'll come around.
2007-01-19 13:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by jakethesnake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest activities that dont involve physical activity. Try going out instead of staying in.
2007-01-19 13:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by brandeeteer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her " I have the most love and attraction for you that I never had with any other girl and I will not ever do anything to hurt you and I love you baby.
2007-01-19 13:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to things she likes. Ask her what she likes to do or eat or watch and provide her with a chance to do it. Pay ATTENTION to her.
2007-01-19 13:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring flowers for her then have sex with her all night on candles light, then it's the perfect time to whisper in her ears [it's the first time I note your perfect body.. do you like my d**k to ************************?]
2007-01-19 13:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by hunga bunga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her duh!
2007-01-19 13:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by cherrysnowcone08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋