My 2 cousin which I was very close to until they started drugs,hooking,stealing are really messed up right now and I have no clue on how I can help them.The first one has had 4 children already.She got 3 of them takin away and adopted out so she had another one which child services allowed her to keep.Idont understand cause she has never went to treatment or anything.Well she is now pregnant again:( still on drugs(hiding it well)The other one is her sister which is pregnant with her 3rd child.the first adopted out the 2nd takin away last year in a drug rade of her house and now again.The problem is that social serveces are allowing her to keep this baby too without treatmentdid I mention she has full blown aids and so does all her babies.Whats wrong with this picture.she sees nothing wrong in having these already sick babies/having them takin away then having another to solve that problem.I don't talk to them but around Christmas they called and bragged bouttherepregnancies.whatcanido?
2007-01-19 04:56:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i didnt really understand the question or if there was one , but it doesn't sound right about someone with aids having children intentionally, why would you do that to another human unless you are totally heartless...i hope she recieves the help she needs but it sounds like the state in which she lives needs to tighten up on their social services...they are to protect children, not to ignore situations like this...i feel really sorry for the children, hope all works out ok...
2007-01-19 05:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones having the bad consequences are the children, not these women. I would report their conversations with you to the social services department. Then, stay away from them both. You will have done what you could under the circumstances. Good to know you care.
2007-01-19 13:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best interest is for the children, then you need to go to the authorities, as hard as that will be, and get those kids to safety. Even if they aren't being "beaten", they are still being abused and need someone to speak for them. And it sounds like you care enough to do so. The questions is are you strong enough? And definitely don't try to do it all on your own. Enlist a trusted friend or call a family shelter for help.
Good luck to you and those children who are lucky to have you!
2007-01-19 13:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by J m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋