Im a divorced girl and came out of an abusive relationship and after that i was a party girl, at the club almost every day. Met a guy and was my boyfriend and cheated on him with his cousin which i didnt know till now but knew it was hes friend. I cheated on him because he was still with hes girlfriend while he was with me after 3 months with him. I still ended up forgiving him and let him talk to his friends which are girls. i trusted him. Im still with we have one year,2 months and 2 weeks together and a beautiful son. i told him i had cheated on him 2 months ago. he was very upset cuz of the fact that it was with hes cousin. He didnt forgive me but is still with me. hes became very jealous and dosnt let me wear what i used to wear when i was single. He also rubs in my face what i did after he was still with hes girlfriend and caught him several times talking to her after he told me he wasnt.
2007-01-19 04:51:06 · 22 answers · asked by carmen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lose him, u will be in another abusive relationship.......no trust no relationship, he is controlling u now and im sure u know where that can lead too......abuse!
2007-01-19 04:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the trust is gone ...it will be hard to patch it up...in the future if you got to cheat to get even, it's not worth staying in and if you end up doing it again...remember some things are better left unsaid....the fact that it is his cousin makes it even more personal to him...if it were a mystery guy ..it would have been bad and not so bad but this is his family...even if you didn't know they were cousins, you knew they were friends and he knew that that was his cousin...chances are they both lost respect for you after that...
sorry, had to be honest....wish you all the best though!
2007-01-19 04:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a child involved, i'd be inclined to tell you to try and work it out - but there seems like there's a pattern of cheating between you two. And he's gonna keep doing it. Trust your instincts with your choice - but make sure that you always think of yourself and your safety (in other words don't do the thing He would want).
Be strong.
2007-01-19 04:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by LionessB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for the kid, with a couple of losers for parents. Grow up. Be a responsible adult and take care of the child you brought into this world. It really doesn't matter if you stay with this man or not. You are going to keep trying to emotionally hurt each other. Not a good environment for a child.
2007-01-19 04:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has not forgiven you,and he continues to "rub it in",it's time for you to move on. Living in a bad relationship is harmful to both parties.Get out now before e things really fall apart.
2007-01-19 04:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither of you have respect for eachother or committment. Maybe you should separate and try to find out why you do these things before you get involved with someone else.
2007-01-19 04:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds all very "jerry springer"
exercise some restraint and get a grip. make a good impression for your son.
grow up. follow the inherent sense of morale that we all possess-you know what to do, now do it!
good luck
2007-01-19 04:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should not have done that. That relationship's in the crapper. Move on or things will only get worse and both of you will be very unhappy.
2007-01-19 04:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anyone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think personaly you jumped in a relationship to soon. and from the looks of it this relationship won't last much longer either, so just think of your sons well being first and do whats best for him it's not about you anymore.
2007-01-19 05:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to make you feel like sh**, he done wrong too. try to get counseling to work it out if not separate, not worth both of you cheating. you want a better relationship then that right? good luck.
2007-01-19 04:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋