He is quite all the time. He won't say nuthin much. I tried talking bout football, basketball, and baseball. He just wont talk to me but he talks to everybody else girl or boy he can talk to them. And I decide to ask him why he doesn't talk to me he says i guess i can't talk to you or sumthin i don't know wat it is bout you. Wat do i do? Break up or stay together?
2007-01-19 04:47:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you describe, sounds like he has it BAD for you.
This means he gets tongue tied, and almost literally can't talk. I bet his brain is a little fuzzy when he is near you.
IF you are seriously cute, or he is overwhelmingly attracted to you, it can happen to even an otherwise talkative and confident guy.
IF this turns out to be the case... enjoy the adoration! But be careful not to take advantage of it.
Also enjoy the silence while it lasts... it will not last forever, and he may become an unbearable chatterbox once the effect wears off a bit.
When I was younger, the girls I couldn't even look in the eye, much less say a single word to were the one's I had the biggest crush on.
2007-01-19 04:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't break up just yet. First of all, how old are both of you? I think that he is shy in front of you because of his affection towards you. That would be a good thing for a little bit. I am sure he will get some confidence and just be comfortable with you. To help him out, make the setting comfortable for him. Don't ask him questions that make him reply. Just allow him to come out with a little push but not dragging him out of his shell. Just try to make him comfortable around you and see how it turns out. Good luck.
2007-01-19 04:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by xfootballstarx87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make him see you as a friend as well as a girlfriend. Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship because we are like best friends. Do more stuff together that you both enjoy you will start to see a change hopefully. Good Luck xxx
2007-01-19 04:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is thinking baout breaking up with you and to him maybe the silent treatment is how to do it. Tell him to meet you somewhere private and talk with him and ask him if he wants to go on with you or break up and you find out then
2007-01-19 04:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
conversations are the heart of any relationship.you might as well date a mannequin instead of this guy.!!your relationship wont last long if its just based on the physical.get some one you can talk to,don't you deserve that ?mmmmmm ''yeahh you doo''
2007-01-19 04:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up...if he asked u out, then he might be regrettign the decision
if u asked him out, then he may have just said yes to avoid hurting ur feelings
but yeah, theres no relationship if there is no communication, so you must be really bored..get back in taht dating pool girllll :)
2007-01-19 04:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by HS Sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him he doesn't want you if he's not gonna talk to you you should get someone who does.
2007-01-19 04:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Reggie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you can't change a man. only a man can change hisself. if he cannot talk to you. then you need to tell him. hey if we can't talk, then their is no relationship. communication is the ket to a relationship. i would break up with him.
2007-01-19 04:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mz T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would break up with him get someone who wants 2 talk and b with you!!!
2007-01-19 04:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by loves2flirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is my problem either, but it will get on well by practisin' ry it, u may get ans. talk 2 him and make him ashamed of being silent
2007-01-19 04:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋