My Ex and i met while i was in high school he was in the military well he stopped talking to me he came back and i was pregnant with my daughter he knew i was pregnant and he told me he wanted to be with me no matter what than he leaves to go home for jersey cause he was getting out the military For a year i didn't hear anything from him not a letter card or even a call. Than he shows up a few days before my birthday. He told me that he lost my number but yet he called his best friend who was with my best friend and couldn't get my number. well we moved into an apt together.After my pregnancy i had gained back alot of my previous weight and i was working on losing. we got into alot of fights about my weight he said that i wasn't the girl he fell in love with that i had ate her and that i was disgusting he even raised his hand to me and hit me once i couldn't take it so i left. finally he moved away and now he wants to be my friend? why is he even trying after everything he did to me??
2007-01-19 04:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for Gods sake dont do it, the first time you moved in with him he already was giving you a bunch of crap, he myaswell of said to you i;m a looser and have been out in the world now and cant get any normal person to be with me or put up with me and after I thought about it I remembered you would if I just smooshed you over and hay it worked once so now again he's realizing he's probly even more of a looser than he was then and probly is twice as angry and vengful as he was before so you'll pretty much be in for it and then whatever happens probly will be crap that will follow you or effect you emotionally for the rest of your life and since your even asking about it you know it so dont do it please dont do it, be kinder to yourself than I was and dont ever ever let anyone talk to you that way again no matter what you might be desperate for on the inside it will come to you when you least expect it and even if it never did you'd be better off knowing you respected yourself. When you dont it causes you to be even more depressed and than do stupider things because of how you feel about what you already did, get it ok good luck Kim
2007-01-19 04:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie hes a big jerk. When a man can't take you as you are, Unconditional love then he really doesnt love you. You can do so much better for u and your daughter.
2007-01-19 04:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy Heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not worth your time. if a man can not love you for who you are forget about him................and the fact he hit you just tells me he is a person i would not want to be around and also i would not want him around my child..................move on sweety you will find a man that will love you no matter what.
2007-01-19 04:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by reba d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he grew up,or maybe he realize he had a good thing with u..gl
2007-01-19 04:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋