Got a girls number on Friday, she said I had better call her during the week. So I called on Monday, left a message, no response. Called again on Thursday. Left a message, no response, I was ready to right her off... She called me this morning and I couldn't talk I told her I would call her back this afternoon, after work. She texted back: "no problem, I just wanted to let you know I wasn't ignoring your calls:)"
1. Did I call her too much?
2. Does she even want me to call her back? Is she interested or is this a brush off?
3. Is this some kind of game?
2007-01-19 04:44:09 · 29 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(1) you didn't call her too much -- if you liked her then you should call her; if you were only calling because she told you to, then ditch the number;
(2) she didn't have to let you know she "wasn't ignoring your calls" she could have just not returned your calls.
(3) romance is always a game -- you need to play to find out who wins.
2007-01-19 04:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be so worried about it, maybe she just had a veyr busy week.
1. I dont think you called her much at all, the amount of time between each call was perfect.
2. I think she does. Especially since she texted right after you spoke to her.
3. Not at the moment, in my opinion, perhaps if the relationship continues like this then yes!! But this week must have just been a really awkward one.
2007-01-19 04:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by ttiiggeerroo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming she is a "say what she feels" type, then no, she requested you call her during the week and you did. Also, by her texting you back and saying np, and that she wasn't ignoring you, she is leaving herself open for another call. Just keep calling (not incessantly) until you two eventually catch up with one another. The more you speak to her, the better idea you will get about how she feels and what direction the relationship is going.
2007-01-19 04:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read likes she likes you. She told you that she wasn't ignoring your calls and even gave you a cute smiley face at the end. Apparently, you didn't call her too much cause she called you back not when you thought she would but she did. Just take things slow and if she didn't like you trust me no woman is going to give a man they don't like their real phone # nor will she call back so take it as a good sign.
2007-01-19 04:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. No, you did the right thing.
2. Yes, she wants you to call her. And no this is NOT a brush off.
3. No, I don't believe so. E-mail or text messaging are worst possible form of communication. Nothing replaces face-to-face human interaction.
2007-01-19 04:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by supergirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are playing telephone tag. It happens. The next time you call if you can't get through to her, ask her when the best time to call would be or give her a good time to call you. She is interested or she wouldn't have told you that she's not ignoring your calls.
2007-01-19 04:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. No
2. She called you back and text, didn't she? Yes, she's interested.
3. No. She texted she wasn't ignoring your calls.
Why cant you take things at face value instead of trying to read something that's not there?
Just do what you say you are going to do. We ladies are impressed by honesty!
2007-01-19 04:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Heather Rae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its always a game, Ever heard the saying," DONT HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME"
No she wants you to call because she texted back. If you got NO reply i would say something different.
2007-01-19 04:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by remailer000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are busy. I think you didn't call too many times. It shows you are thinking about her,aw :) Invite her out one weekend to something she's interested in. Don't go to the club or anyplace with booze, it leads into trouble. Have coffee or hot choc. together and talk :) Good Luck!
2007-01-19 04:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by rspheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her back.If she took the time to explain why she wasn't answering your calls, she wants you to call. She texted you because she thought you were brushing her off for her not answering your phone calls. Call today afterwork and see what happens. Good luck.
2007-01-19 04:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by girlieGIRL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋