we have known each other for quite awhile, she knows I like her and I'm pretty sure if she didnt have a boyfriend things would be different she even admitted it. I really cant get this girl out of my mind we have alot in common people even mistake us as a couple. Im my whole life I have never went after a girl with a boyfriend but this time I cant help myself. PLEASE HELP
2007-01-19 04:43:24 · 16 answers · asked by tha1mix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave her alone!! if you've known her for a while why didnt you make the first move before she went ahead and found herself a boyfriend? Furthermore if she has a boyfriend and is flirting with you chances are she will flirt with another guy if she was with you.
2007-01-19 04:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was a cake you'd be the sprinkles on top of the icing. The icing is her boyfriend and you are the sprinkles as an addition but you're not needed. Understand that lust and temptation are powerful emotions and are not to reckoned with. You and this female are supposed to be friends. It is alright for you two to like each other but not in a way that will add famon to the friendship. You need to think this through because it could cost more than what you bargained for.
2007-01-19 04:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one of three things:
#1 - She is looking for a reason to leave her boyfriend and she is hoping YOU are the reason.
#2 - She is a slut that is hoping to get you in bed on the side while she gets to keep her current boyfriend.
#3 - She has a very low self esteem and she is just using you to boost her moral, but when all is said and done you are nothing more than a friend.
Good luck figuring it out.
2007-01-19 04:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never going out with a girl who already has boyfriend is a good mark in your book of life! You should do something to keep you occupied, find yourself a girlfriend and stay away from her. It will make you a better person, rather than trying to ruin someone else's relationship.
2007-01-19 04:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you are saying is true then your love interest has to tell the boyfriend goodbye, put yourself in the boyfriends shoes would you want your girlfriend to be with another guy while you were her boyfriend? Telling him about your or not is her decision but after she tells him it is over and you too are seen together the truth will come out.
2007-01-19 04:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and picture yourself a little bit into the future
with her, some time down the road.
Ask yourself how would you feel if you were finally her boyfriend, then in time she has her eyes on another guy.
Ask yourself then how you would feel. Would not the proper course be to be single first? - The two of you.
2007-01-19 04:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend = no touchy touchy! As long as that boyfriend is around you need to keep your head on and keep it as just friends. She gets rid of the boyfriend, go in for it! Plus, if she's willing to do something like that to her boyfriend, aren't you worried she may turn around and do that to you after you become her boyfriend? That would be a major concern of mine...
2007-01-19 04:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off of her, even if she does like you bad things happen when you flirt with a taken girl. You should wait untill she actually breaks up with her current bf before you even think about going after her.
2007-01-19 04:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Why don't you ask her to break up with her boyfriend. I guess she wants her cake and to eat too. Which means that she probably likes you but no to the extent that she will give up her boyfriend.
2007-01-19 04:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋