My b/f is 32 and i am 22 we have been together forever it seems now he's really good with my daughter and he treats me like i want to be treated. Since Before our first date i let him know i had a daughter and that i don't leave her with a babysitter he told me that was cool and said "Bring her along i'd love to meet her" He is the only guy i know that is like that i have been on other dates and i told them i didn't have a babysitter they have either canceled the date or told me they would take a raincheck. He treats me Alot better than guys my age do he is alot more mature and he has his life together he knows what he wants. The only thing i am freaked out about is he has done so much more than me we love each other but will our age be a problem? everyone says it will but i like to think because of our ages we will be able to keep each other together while he's mature he can be kinda childish like everyone and so can i so i guess the question i am asking is Does Age Really Matter?
2007-01-19 04:32:51 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is trust, honesty, respect, and equality in the relationship, and both of you can continue on, then I don't see a problem with age.
I am 24, and my boyfriend is 29. I got married when I was 21, and was divorced by age 23 (the finalization). I don't trust guys my age right now. I probably never will.
As you get older, age matters less and less. After my divorce, I knew that I would never date or marry anybody unless they were 5-10 years my senior. It seems ok to me.
Why do you care what other people think? It's your relationship, right?
2007-01-19 04:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by ~Z~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny.. The guy i'm dating is ten years older then me too and we seem to work great together. I mean I keep him feeling young and he keeps me feeling mature and responsible. It's weird I can't describe the feeling but it works we barely fight and where planing on moving in together in a month. After the age of 18 i don't think the age really matters because you old enough and hopefully mature enough to make responsible decisions and if you too love each other I don't see why you too can't be with each other. Good Luck
2007-01-19 04:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at the age you are at. You are old enough to do things he can. My boyfriend is older than me and at first it freaked me out just thinking he is so much older than me. But the only time I ever notice or think he is older than me is when some one asks. He acts at times younger than me. If your boyfriend doesn't have a problem with the age and you care about him enough don't worry about it. I know tons of people that are with older guys. Enjoy what you have you are lucky it sounds like he cares about you and your child. Do what you feel comfortable doing and don't worry what people say about the age they probably wouldn't even know if you didn't tell them. Good Luck!
2007-01-19 04:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age only matters if you make it a problem. You are obviously very happy with him. Take advantage of this and enjoy it. Other people say it wont work out? Well, they arent you. This isnt their relationship. If your daughter loves him and you love him and he loves you, then just be thankful you have soeone so great. If it doesnt work out then it wasnt meant to be, but you gave it a shot without ruining it over a silly thing like age.
2007-01-19 04:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, age does not matter, like what other have said, "he is older than you, that would be a problem" . well read what u type, guys your age cancel your date or a raincheck is needed. People just can't be in your shoes, so forget what other thinks. Go with your heart.
2007-01-19 04:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age ain't nothin but a number. It doesn't matter that he is 10 years older than you, as long as he is treating you and your little girl with respect. Don't look back on the things he's done, he's with you now. He will learn things from you that he has never learned before. It's up to you if your age difference becomes a problem.
2007-01-19 04:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age shouldn't be a problem, unless you make it a problem. Sounds to me like this guy is a great guy, and has accepted your daughter, and the fact you don't leave her with a sitter, and hes not ran off on you, what does that say? If its an issue to you, then you need to move on to someone closer to your own age, and let this really great catch go to someone who will appreciate him as a man, and not see him as just a number.
2007-01-19 04:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does, but your mind is made up..go for it...it's nothing like getting experience in relationships, just guard your heart and have fun. Don't over expose your child to him until you are sure you have a solid future with him because IF it ends, the child won't understand and will suffer too.
2007-01-19 04:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by S C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age, that age difference will really not matter at all. my husband is 8 years older than me, and i really don't think it matters. i once had a bf who was 10 yrs older than me. it really didn't seem to be an issue. don't let the age thing worry you for a second.
2007-01-19 04:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋