so theirs this guy i know...hes so gorgeous your heart stops when you see him..hes a def. eye catcher..dark curly hair, fit, 6"2...nicest guy you'll meet....but hes engaged, is it wrong to have a crush on him?!
2007-01-19 04:29:39 · 41 answers · asked by lynn t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No as long as you don't act on it.
2007-01-19 04:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is wrong to have a crush on an engaged man, but you should leave it at that. If he is engaged, he must be happy, so you should be happy for him. There are a lot of good men available ~~ just think, how would you feel if you were engaged and someone had a crush on your man and might be thinking about taking him from you! You are having normal feelings - find yourself a good man and you will be even happier!
2007-01-19 04:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not wrong for u to have a crush on him.U think hes a great lookin guy, nice, gentlemen. Im sure he catches alot of gurls eyes, but u cant act on it. Especially if the girl is ur friend. Eventually ull grow away from him and find someone who u can have a crush on and actually get. So i see nothin wrong with it.
2007-01-19 04:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems such as you're thinking your engagement and relatively that's beneficial to look deep and locate in the adventure that your fh is the guy you haven't any longer any doubt what-so ever approximately. I wont say you arent waiting yet that's a stable time to take a seat down and address your thoughts. in case you do decide for this guy is the single you choose for to be with and are postive approximately it, the "overwhelm" will pass away.
2016-10-31 13:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by lobos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your crush based on lust or love? If it's just a physical attraction, you should be able to conquer it easily. If it's a romantic attraction, that is more difficult.
**You can't always help what you feel, but you can help what you DO about it.**
Clearly, he's made his choice, and loves his fiance, not you. Keep reminding yourself of that. If you find yourself daydreaming about him, stop yourself and remind yourself that it's not healthy to encourage these feelings, it will only drive you crazy. Purposely try to find other men who interest you. Try to avoid seeing him or talking to him, if you can do so politely.
2007-01-19 04:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little girls have crushes all of the time, so yours is no different than any other child's. Men are usually flattered to find they are the object of a teenage (or pre-teen, not sure how old you are) crush, but they don't act on it or there are serious consequences.
2007-01-19 04:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong to have a crush on him. To start to show your affections to him would be wrong and would most likely end up in heartbreak for you considering he has given his heart to someone else already.
2007-01-19 04:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kamryn's Mommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong to have a crush on him.
However, it would be very wrong to act on it.
Move on and find somebody equally handsome and charming. Plenty more fish in the see :-)
2007-01-19 04:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a crush, nothing serious. It becomes an issue when you act on those feelings. Respect the relationship he has with his fiance and don't do anything.
2007-01-19 04:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to have a crush on him. It WOULD be wrong to act on those feelings tho.
But a little crush never hurt anyone.
2007-01-19 04:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong to have a crush on him but you probably won't get anywhere if he is engaged. I would move on and look for someone who is not taken.
2007-01-19 04:31:39 · answer #11 · answered by xfootballstarx87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋