I has sex with this boy and we broke up and now i have a new boyfriend and lately me and my ex have been talking and we still have feelings for each other.. i love my boyfriend but i love my ex too
2007-01-19 04:26:06 · 21 answers · asked by Mz. Robbinson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is obviously a reason why this other guy is your ex... you have to remember that. If you love your current bf, then you need to stay away from the ex... and if its the ex you want, then turn loose of this other guy before the situation gets out of control.
2007-01-19 04:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having lingering feelings for an ex is natural... it's not necessarily a sign that you two are meant to be together. You need to examine whatever issues you left unresolved with your ex to find out why they are still haunting you. Try exploring your feelings by writing in a journal.
Do NOT cheat on your current boyfriend. Examine your own feelings first.
2007-01-19 12:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex is not love, are you confusing the two?????
If you had feelings for someone you should not go out and hook up with someone else. It is not fair to them or you. Now you have created a mess, because you didn't think....
Maybe you need to be by yourself for a while and figure out where you really want to be. Then and only then you should choose the person you want to be with.
You are no good in a relationship if you are not
emotionally healthy.
2007-01-19 12:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind or keep loving them both. I am not even lying...this a best answer our there.....if you are young and you can play this game smart you can love both of them and be treated good by both of them without them know of each other. Now if you dont think you can pull it off then choose. Base your choice accurately though, because you chasing two rabbits might leave without any at all. So make sure one of them is what you want and he is guaranteed here to stay for a lil while.
2007-01-19 12:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really going to listen to what anyone here tells you to do? no... you're going to do whatever you want to do. So just do that. Because you're not looking for (shitty) advice, you're looking for reassurance that you're not a bad person or something. So just do what ever you feel like you want to do, and can live with. Because in the heat of the moment, all the advice and BS you get from everyone else will flood out of your brain like... well... a flood.
2007-01-19 12:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by DudeMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has feelings for one another, we are human!Ask yourself,What do I love about my ex? Ask the same about your currant relationship. If this is too difficult for you to figure out, you don't have to have a boyfriend! Do something for yourself.
2007-01-19 12:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by rspheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down and decide which guy that you like the best. Even if you have to make a list, you have to be sure of which one you would really rather be with. Good luck!
2007-01-19 12:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a boyfriend! Just date and then you can see which one you really love, if either.
2007-01-19 12:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by lepluver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you wont be able to have both of them so you will have to decide which one you really want to be with. Carry on seeing them both at the same time and you will end up losing them both.
2007-01-19 12:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by emmalp75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in trouble girl.Just stick to ur current BF and avoid ur ex
2007-01-19 12:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋