Help me UNDERSTAND Women? Anyone?

Question

Can they really be figured out?

Women? Do you really even understand yourselves?

Just curious. This is not an attack.. I just really, really want to understand women.

Good answers. I like the ones where the women say basically, "don't try" , we don't understand ourselves! CUTE! !!

Answer 1

Don't even try to understand us, its to much for any one man to handle.

Answer 2

Gosh, us women ask the same thing about men. To answer your first question - can we really be figured out, probably not. And do we really understand ourselves, most of the time no. We are very complex creatures and try to create balance in our lives. We tend to analyze and disect every aspect of something before making a life changing decision.

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Answer 3

Hummm,
The truth is women ask the same of men, but i will give u my opinion.

It's just we are not like men, we like to communicate and when we don't understand why a man or a person, does us wrong we want to know why, was it something we did, we don't hold thing in. We just want that man to Love us unconditionally and take us as we are, very loving and caring, god made us this way for a reason. We handle Pain, and do it all over again, even though we know how painful. God made us strong, so we can be mothers and a father to our children, when there is no father. (did both)
We want to be loved to, just like men, but we want you to show us, not just tell us. We want romance, not just sex.
If my man doesn't show me love and affection how can I want him to make love to me. We need to know we are appreciate for things we do, and spoken to, even if you day was not so great, tell us about it.
Well, i hope this help some. but most all, have lots of love and patience, yet at times, we feel sad and frustrated at the same time, We just want lots of tender loving care. from that special man...take care and may u find ur answer, God Bless.

Answer 4

Of course I understand myself. However when it comes to men understanding I'm not sure most have the capability to. The male mind is depressingly and annoyingly too simple. Seems men basically just want to stay kids and do whatever they want whenever they want and women realize that with growing up comes responsibilities. Things must change but men dont get that and then blame the old ball and chain.

Answer 5

The problem is that every woman is different. You just have to take the time to figure one out. Then after you figure her out, and if it doesn't work out, the next one could be completely different and you have to start all over again. Alot of people are confused at times about who they are and what they really want. So just keep trying and be patient, you will know the right one when you meet her. Good Luck!

Answer 6

This sounds like a rhetorical question asked out of frustration. If you are having issues understanding a woman whom you are dealing with, then I suggest you ask that woman about whatever it is you don't understand. There are no hard and fast rules to understanding women. Everyone is different, and the only way you'll truly understand women is to become one.

Answer 7

Women cannot be figured out as a generality. Individual women can be figured out. but you have to talk to them, listen to them. Every woman is different and that is what makes them crazy. Us guys only have like 5 rules (sex, food, work, sleep, crap). Yep it's that basic. Women have like emotions and hormones and stuff that we will never understand. Wild mood swings and random conversations with their mothers. Don't try to understand it just live with it. That is what makes us men. Selective hearing is great, because it makes it so you don't turn into a chick. Chicks dig that because they like men, because we are different. Weird how that works.

Answer 8

Its hard for women to understand men as well. We all give out mixed signals it's just the way things are don't take it personally. Remember not all women are the same. Just get to know the person your with or want to get with and you will start to understand them.

Answer 9

To be honest...we ask ourselves this question once in a while...what am i doing? Dating this looser? JK!
No attack on you by the way...

But no on a more serious note...If you are having a hard time understanding a woman leave her alone...it is the hormones kicking in (every month) and it makes us upset, depressed, picky, you name it we are it.
So dont give it too much thought or you will go nuts, sometimes we dont even know we are going through it and we have to catch ourselves and say...oh wait a minute...it is coming! So watch out!

Answer 10

Every woman wants to feel that is she vitally important to you and your life. She doesn't want to be taken for granted, she wants to be appreciated.
It's actually pretty simple, men are quite self centred while women are trained not to be and they want some of that for themselves.
They want a man whom they can lean on for support, who is strong enough to take the iniative, without smothering them.
Theyw ant a man who will defend them, and not let them down.
And they want the toilet seat left up, a cup of tea in the morning, a decent birthday present and Christmas present, a Valentine card and a box of chocolates and an anniversary present, too.So a thoughtful considerate guy would go down well.

Answer 11

I dont think anyone will ever completely understand women. There was a book that was popular... "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus".