I feel good when ever i see this girl...
she is damn beautiful and also she is elder to me by 2 months!
i like her a lot and she does like me too...
can i ask her for a date and tell her how i feel... oh... i am confused! please help me out!
2007-01-19 04:10:45 · 40 answers · asked by odysseus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lust.
Love is only after you get to know someone and genuinely like them, and there is trust and honesty and you enjoy being with them for many reasons. Love takes time and hard work.
Ask her for a date, but don't gush about how you love her or lust after her. Start out by being friends and getting to know more about her. That is the ONLY way you will have a long-lasting relationship.
Good luck!
2007-01-19 04:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nice, kid, but how old ARE you lol. Anyway, it sounds like you really do like this girl and being around her makes you happy. And two months is like, nothing! I was a year and a half older than my boyfriend.
So, like other people have said, you could just ask her out, because the worst that could happen is that she says no. If she says no, then just act like nothing happened and keep being her friend. If she says yes, well, no matter how much you think you love her, take it real, REAL slow. I broke up with my boyfriend because he said he loved me, (I'm crazy, right?) not because of the age difference. The thing is, as much as pop culture says girls only want to be loved, and you have to tell them you love them fifty million times a day, that's NOT true for all of us. Sometimes it scares us. I think you're probably too young to be toting around a hefty word like love yet, bud. And it doesn't sound like lust, either, because you're not talking about a physical, "Oh my frikking gosh I have to BE with this girl!" It actually sounds like a sweet, innocent "puppy-love" sensation. Make sure you really get to know this girl before you tell her how you feel, because if you tell her now, and then you change your mind, she's gonna try to send you on a guilt trip ("I thought you loved me!" blah, blah, BLAH). Don't tie yourself down, k?
Good luck, Dude!!!
<3
2007-01-19 05:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Shirley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you want to get to know her more then ask her out... take things slow though. Don't rush into anything. Love is something that comes by with alot of time and alot of work. Sounds like lust to me. But i'm glad you found someone your interested in.
2007-01-19 04:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by iwuvmyhubby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would label it as infatuation. Love takes time to develop - real love, that is - and if it's not just plain infatuation, then it's just pure lust.
Ask the girl out, and if she says yes, then see where it leads. If she denies you, then move on.
And who cares about age? I am 24 - my boyfriend is 29. When you are an adult - age tends to matter less and less as you get older. Not that I am old by any means - just saying.
2007-01-19 04:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~Z~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys make the common mistake of telling girls "their feelings" too soon.
Until you're dating, and you've had some time together and you really know eachother... you don't know what your "feelings" are about her.
And truth told, sharing your "feelings" doesn't make a girl like you.
You sound young, and at your age, dating a girl because you both seem to like eachother, and she's pretty is fine... this is all about learning anyway.
2007-01-19 04:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, sounds to me like it is lust. Ask her out, get to know her from the inside and see what you guys have in common. You asking if you can ask her out confuses me, if she likes you and you like her as well, go for it. But take the time to get to know her from the inside out and not the outside in.
2007-01-19 04:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by lollly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax take a deep breath, say hi to her and ask her for a date.
I would hold off on telling her your feelings just start with a date and take it one step at a time.
2007-01-19 04:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure Odysseus!!!
Tell her! When you first meet someone, you are attracted physically. So what she's 2 months older than you. If you guys like each other than spend time exploring that.
Good Luck!
2007-01-19 04:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's neither of those. You like this girl and you want to date her, but if you don't love her and if you want more than to just get into her pants then you don't lust after her.
2007-01-19 04:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months huh?
Sounds like you're too young to even be interested in girls
You're young, so chances are that this isn't the girl you're gonna spend the rest of your life with. Date her, have fun and grow up
2007-01-19 04:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋