Ok, let's see if I can make this fairly short. So my comoany just went on a cruise to the bahamas (had a blast). There is this guy from same company, different location. We met before when he had to drive up to us to make a delivery. Some chemistry but neither of us acted on it,he tried but I brushed him off. I was engaged then. So anyway we meet up again on the cruise and were pretty much inseperable. We each did our separate thing (him with the guys, me with the girls) In our business meetings he kept staring at me. Long story short for 2 of the 3 nights we were cruisin he stayed with me in my room. We had sex (very good sex) one night, the other night we just chilled and talked. He's nice and he called me the first day we got back to work. No one knows about us so it's on some down low stuff right now. One of my drivers had to go to his warehouse on tuesday and he wrote on the back of out dirty truck for me to see "I miss you". very cute. The thing is I don't know if I should just
2007-01-19 04:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by nikkid6910705 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...leave it on the cruise. Or if I should take him serious. He seems to be serious but I don't know. I'm kind of hesitant because I just came out of a long relationship where I got **** on and I don't want to be hurt again. I do like him, and I am attracted to him, but he is definetely a ladies man. He got a lot of attention on the cruise. His body is beautiful, but he is also fun to be around. That's my concern. He's about 2 hours from me and i know he has lady friends. should I waste my time. But then what if he is the one, and all this time we just been tip toeing around until we got to this point to actually make this thing grow. I don't know. I can be kind of mean sometimes and not give things a chance, but sometimes with good reason. Any advice???
2007-01-19 04:04:52 · update #1
sorry I did TRY to make it short, there's more I left out....lol
2007-01-19 04:09:17 · update #2
First of all don't punish him for your last relationship. Quote: where I got **** on" It is not his fault. I understand you are or were hurt. It is really hard to do this I know.
The problem I see here is the distance (2 hours). You are already trying to sabotage the relationship by thinking he is a ladies man and you may not be able to trust him. That is not a good thing. He may be trust-worthy. (im not saying he is) but he could be.
The way I see it is, you either need to fully commit and tell yourself you are willing to give this guy a chance (with any preconceived notions) or just chalk it up to a good time on a cruise. Do not go into this with an attitude that he will hurt because if you do I promise, he will.
2007-01-19 04:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your decision is based on what you want. You just got out of a long relationship so do you want another one or are you just out to have fun for a bit? He sounds like a bit of a player but granted a player that is into you. Go out and have fun but have the mindset that it isnt anything exclusive or longterm then you wont have any chance of getting hurt. Enjoy the moment.
2007-01-19 04:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by KB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was the short version???
Go for it or you will spend the rest of your life wondering. Worse case scenario you have a good time for a while. Best case, you live happily ever after.
2007-01-19 04:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl! Wow what a hot story too... wish I had that kind of luck.... discreet sex on a cruise ship. When ya going next and I'll be there! hehe
2007-01-19 04:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There very common but so fun. This guy came up to me and talked and we danced. We started hanging out the last few days and he eventually kisses me then we made out :)... To bad he lives in Oregon and I live in Tennessee :( have fun with it!
2016-05-24 07:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he asks you out, GO FOR IT!
Just take things slow so you wont get hurt. Good Luck.
2007-01-19 04:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Heather Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously u have a good thing going....play it slow..but play it right...sounds pretty good to me...sounds like he is cool...he has called and he has written a surprise note...sounds like the kinda decent dude girls on here are always crying about saying they do not exist...looks like u found one...ROCK HIS WORLD!!!! and u get the benefit...good luck....this great advice will self-destruct in 72 hours if u do not act on it.....CALL HIM NOW!
2007-01-19 04:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
2007-01-19 04:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by tHEwISE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl!
2007-01-19 04:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i though you where gonna make it short?
2007-01-19 04:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋