a guy broke your heart not once ,not twice, but three times in like 3 weeks and in the midst of ya'll struggle he got another woman pregnant and decides he wants to be with her and not you, but he still tells you he loves you and he comes to see you, but you can't get him out of your system because ya'll had so much together and ya'll shared everything together. and you know the bridge is burned because ya'll both got ya'll parents involved so there's no way of going back to the way it was. you want to get over him but its so hard. in the midst of all of that, you yourself might be pregnant.
2007-01-19 03:56:04 · 7 answers · asked by carey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must have been dating for quiet a while to be heart broken
buy a lot of chocolate to eat
and buy a new best friend from the store with the black door with black bags
2007-01-19 03:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, seems like u got urself into some deep ****! First, this guy is NOT worth ur time. Not only did he break your heart, he took it out and stomped on it, blatantly. So, if he did it not once, but three times, what makes you think he wont do it a fourth time? Get Out of this relationship ASAP!!! This guy doesnt seem to do right by you and on top of that he is living a double life! Dont believe the lies--if he loved you he would NOT treat u the way he does. Seemingly, the relationship has lost its trust factor, and without that...a health relationship will never resurface. Ditch him!!! and dont have his baby--you'll subject yourself to his bullshit for the next 21 years! Dont do it!
2007-01-19 04:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by bgsfnstldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first find out if you are pregnant or not. If you are and it's his baby, then you will be connected to him for the rest of your life.
Admit to yourself this guy is a loser and vow not to have any contact with him beyond what is absolutely necessary (that is about the baby if you ARE pregnant. If not, NO contact with him at all).
Just immerse yourself in YOUR life and your hobbies. Hang out with your friends and family and do NOT just jump to dating another guy.
Only time will help your feelings fade, but I can't help but wonder why you have feelings for such a slimy guy. Also, you are LETTING him break your heart. How about not giving it to him anymore and then you won't have to worry about him breaking it. Take better care of yourself!
2007-01-19 04:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG - You should be on ricki lake show lol
Ever heard of the saying
"Fool me once - shame on you, fool me twice - shame on me"
A guy only has to break my heart once for me to realise he's not worth it! Someone who loves you would not hurt you, and this guy has done it 3 times!
I think you need to find out if you really are pregnant or not, if you are and its his, dont hold it as a bargining point to get him back, he does not sound worth it. What ever the outcome is, be strong, for you, and maybe your child, glxxxx
2007-01-19 04:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by TP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably have heard this one before it just takes time.
Plus you need to lean on God and your family. Pray everyday for forgiveness. I went through a break up about 5 years ago and I went to this seminar. It was called the Bruce fisher seminars look it up on the net it really helped me.
http://www.fisherseminars.com/
2007-01-19 04:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Julian K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him he will get back together with you then probly just leave you again and get another girl pregnant. trust me you deserve better.
2007-01-19 04:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heavy drinking and promiscuous sex!
2007-01-19 04:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bobert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋