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2007-01-19
03:53:57
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No early society had put any restrictions on the number of wives or put any conditions about how they were to be treated. Jesus(pbuh) was not known to have spoken against polygamy. As recent as the 17th century, polygamy was practiced and accepted by the Christian Church. The Mormons (Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints) has allowed and practiced polygamy in the United States.
2007-01-19
03:54:50 ·
update #1
Actually there are three kinds of polygamy practiced in Western societies:
* Serial polygamy, that is, marriage, divorce, marriage, divorce and so on any number of times.
* A man married to one woman but having and supporting one or more mistresses.
* An unmarried man having a number of mistresses.
Islam condones but discourages the first and forbids the other two.
2007-01-19
03:55:53 ·
update #2
"If you fear that you will not deal fairly by the orphans, marry of the women, who seem good to you,, two or three or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with them, then only one or one that your right hands possess. That will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice." (Qur’an 4:3)
2007-01-19
03:56:38 ·
update #3
"You will never be able to deal justly between wives however much you desire (to do so). But (if you have more than one wife) do not turn altogether away (from one), leaving her as in suspense…" (Qur’an 4:129)
2007-01-19
03:56:57 ·
update #4
In the words of Mrs. Annie Besant, a founder member of Theosophical Society, Madras, India in her book 'Life and Teachings of Mohammed' writes: “There is pretended monogamy in West, but it is really polygamy without responsibility; the mistress is cast off when the man is weary of her, and she sinks gradually as the `woman of street’, for the first lover has no responsibility for her future. She is hundred times worse of than the sheltered wife and mother in polygamous home. We see thousands of miserable women who crowd the streets of Western countries during the night. We must surely feel that it does not lie within the Western mouth to reproach Islam for polygamy. It is better for woman, happier for woman, more respectable for woman, to live in polygamy, united to one man only, with legitimate child in her arm, surrounded with respect than to be seduced and cast off in the street, perhaps with an illegitimate child outside the pale of Law”.
2007-01-19
03:57:21 ·
update #5