2007-01-19 03:53:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easily learn to control your imagination, rather than have it control you...
For it is the imagination that causes these feelings of jealousy, when people visualise, for example, their partner with someone else. This can cause a whole host of problems associated with these jealous feelings, from anxiety and panic, to anger when their partner simply looks at another person.
Then 'being jealous' can occur when, say, someone else gets promoted at work and you feel you should have got the job. Or jealousy can rear it's head when your neighbour buys a new hi-fi that's better than yours.
These patterns of thinking, imagining, and subsequently feeling that we call jealousy are not only usually useless, but also debilitating. However, hypnotherapy and NLP can really help you to stop being jealous.
2007-01-19 04:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People can get jealous for many reasons, like something they wished they had someone else has like a lifestyle, designer clothes, really cool gadgets. Could be jealous because a friend is getting married or having a baby, or because of a relationship, or work that people wish they had or the kind of money. But in all aspect there is really nothing to be jealous, not everyone can have everything or be everyone. Being yourself is better then trying to be somone else or something we are not, it does not seem to get people anywhere or get them anything of much.
2007-01-19 04:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human Nature
2007-01-19 03:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a natural human emotion.There is absolutley nothing wrong with having a jealous feeling as long as you do not allow it to take over and control you.If you never felt jealous then you would'nt be human.
2007-01-19 03:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature to get jealous.
2007-01-19 03:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we get jealous because we always want what we cant have! WE are humans
2007-01-19 04:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion of jealousy is insecurity, happens to me all the time!!! If i want so insecure and i was more confident i wouldnt be so jealous!!!
2007-01-19 04:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by Priscilla R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time it insecurities dat cause us to react the way we react and then again it in our nature to be jealous!!!
2007-01-19 04:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mz. Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural.
2007-01-19 04:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by memonikos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we'd rather see ourselves in the same position someone else is in
2007-01-19 03:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋