My best guy friend at school always says he doesn't like me but I've heard different. He JUST called and I have to call him back. I just need some advice on this please!
2007-01-19 03:43:02 · 24 answers · asked by XxXTaRaXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, i think for now you should just take his word for it, if he really likes you then he will tell you when the time is right for him. Forcing the issue now may cause you to lose your friendship so just play it cool
2007-01-19 03:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you seen "Hitch"? meet him... get close to him... (physically) and move in that 10%... if he comes to you the other 90%... YOU will know. otherwise he'll ask what the hell your doing... and you can lay down your cards and tell him how you feel... will you feel foolish if he doesn't feel the same way? probably... but what if he does? Never... start a relationship with a "game" in games...there's always a winner and a looser... relationships are NOT games... start with honesty and a direct approach and you can't go wrong. Love is NOT for cowards... it takes a bravery to expose your heart... So be brave... and put yourself out there...
2007-01-19 11:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and you want to know if he likes you then here are a few things to think about...
DOES HE...
talk to you but not really look at you?
smile when he sees you?
talk in a lower voice when he's around you?
ask your friends if your going to be somewhere (say a movie or a party or something like that)?
look at you and then look way when he sees you looking at him?
call you back (almost as soon as he sees you called and he missed it)?
act nervous (shortness of breath, st-st-stutter) when your talking to him?
answer these questions. if the answer is yes to the majority of these then, truth-be-told, he most likely does. if so, then YOU GO GIRL! if not then, maybe you should evaluate your conversations a lot more. and don't call him back immediately... no matter how bad you want to talk to him. make him sweat... make him want to talk to you more... or wait till he calls you again... then just act like it was no big deal... you dont want him to think your all-off him and you dont want him to think that he is the center of your world.
2007-01-19 11:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by jessilynne16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the body language. A guy that is attracted to you will move into your 'space' for no apparent reason even you are talking about neutral subjects like cars or sports together!
2007-01-19 11:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by stongc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something you don't normally do that is kind of flirty. Say, touch him on the arm as you're talking, or something of that sort. Then look at his face. If he likes you, he'll smile, his eyes will light up, SOMETHING will happen...unless he's a eunuch, but I'm betting that's not the case.
2007-01-19 11:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by unclekettch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell if someone is really attracted to you if they are always doing something and then look over at you as if showing off or they way they act around you he he it never hurts to get at it the old fashioned way ask them out lol
2007-01-19 11:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by lol_iamevil_lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they really like you they wont be fake..they would be hones with you including showing their true emotions( even the bad ones anger sadness ) You can actually tell someone who is being so natural which has nothing to hide to you.
2007-01-19 12:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask some close friends, if their stories line-up, then thats the answer. If they don't match, then take his word for it.
When asking a friend ask, "who does so-and-so like?"
2007-01-19 11:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by always under siege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can discover this by the way she treating you, like touching your hands, laying over you, hold you tightly and stuff like that
2007-01-19 11:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to tell if someone likes u.u have to see if that person really cares by catchin them off guard wit one of they friends. try it .it work for me and we have been going together for five months.
2007-01-19 11:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by meko@zylonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋