Should i move back home,does he feel i need him? moved n with bf.He came all the way from fl & we got our 1st?

Question

place. Im 21 & i have a 3 yr old child thats not his but u wouldnt think so when theyre 2 gether. Her fathers in prison for 20yrs. my bf has done alot for me in the past 2 yrs. But we fight and argue more than we get along.He always throws all of the things he does for me in my face when we argue.(I think he believes i should kiss his ***). I feel like he wants to feel dominant or something. Is it right for him to make it seem like i dont contribute to anything because i make less money. I still contribute every month to the rent & i take care of my child. I was doing it alone before him. He has a tendency to put his self in the same category as my granny who raised me & watches my child daily when i go to work. He tells me i should appreciate them more.(him and my granny). I get offended when he says that because even if he feels like i dont appreciate him he shouldnt speak for her i app my nana very much & i show her daily in many ways.He can never be in the same boat as her.

Answer 1

He wants to be your father not a bf.
I think if you can stand on your own two feet you should.
I think he is a negative factor in your life and that it is not in your best interests to stay with him.He is manipulative, a bully and he wants to dominate you and control you.
This is a big no no..
He must feel that because your child's father is in prison that you dont deserve anything good.
Well, my dear, he is wrong and you had better stand up now and say it loud and clear so that he gets the message.
If he doesn't like it there with you, tell him to get out and get his own place.
When it comes to talking about your granny, he has no business saying anything.
Who the heck does he think he is, speaking on her behalf.
Do not listen to him, he is trying to make you feel guilty so he can make himself feel better.. or superior to you... A load of crud....
Again, I feel he has over stepped his bounds and this is only going to progress.
If he is belittling you now what comes next, a slap a kick a punch.
Get rid of him... now, you deserve better.

Answer 2

Thats a very touch situation, but one thing I've learning in life is you need to do whats best for you. If you're not happy with this guy, as much as it sucks, you need to go. Think about how things will be 10 years from now.