Isn't that odd? Maybe you correspond via e-mail. You send pictures back and forth, but you never actually meet face to face.
How can you then develop feelings for them? Seems wrong or something...
2007-01-19 03:33:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes... my Wife of almost 8 years (Anniversary Jan 28). we chatted and got to know each other for almost 8 months before we met face to face. (by car she was about a 14 hour drive... that includes crossing the border...she..American... me..Canadian).
2007-01-19 03:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anyone that ended up with a good relationship from the internet meeting. You can become attractted to a personality and a perception of someone. Just stay very open minded because they will put the best picture they have ever had taken up,( I even do that) but you should ask for most recent pics. They will be different in person. As well as you may think you know them, you will be starting all over when you meet in person. The reason is; in person is a different relationship as online. That can not change. They don't have time to think of best responses you get the raw them. Disaster strikes when reality meets virtual and you suddenly realize they do not live up to your perceptions. On the other hand, you may like them more when you start over as a in person real date.
2016-05-24 07:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People develop feelings based on the person's picture and personality and a lot of times what they WANT the person to be like. Most of the time when you finally meet in person, you find out the person is not at all like they have portrayed.
Mostly, someone is attracted to another's picture and that's how feelings get started. Some people send out of date pictures, so they don't even look like the picture they're sending you, so prepare for the worst!
2007-01-19 03:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
I think one gets attached to the other ones ability to conversate not very many people can conversate
Ive had photos sent 10 year old pictures I feel still acceptable along with recent
Ive had some really lonely men say they Love U
I think everyone needs a friend sometime and noone should be judging others (not that U R)
but everyone is different if friendships or even love develops its up 2 both individuals.
Lying does hurt both individuals if this happens
2007-01-19 03:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, and I don't think there is anything wrong with it. The more "time" you spend with someone, even via email, and the better you get to know them, the better appreciation you will have for their hurts, their joys, and their lives. And in the end, I believe that is what "amorous feelings" are all about. It's just about caring for another person, and it is quite possible to care without ever meeting face to face.
2007-01-19 03:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by unclekettch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad to feel love through the Internet. Your mind develops this person through messages he or she sends to you, you think this person is perfect for you and truly loves you even though you dont know they external features or looks. If you get pictures you cn know thier looks but theres a slight possibilitie that thats not their true identity. Love is something you cant prevent, even the darkest of peopl e feel love; our bodies are programmed to feel this emotion regardless. It may feel wrong but its ok. THe only advice ill give you is to try to develop this in real life and just have friends over the net not mates due to a incredible amount of incidents over net. love...
2007-01-19 03:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. But I didn't do that again. Too many people hide behind the anonymity of the internet.
And too many of them are liars.
And the disappointment of meeting the first time is enough to cure you of emotional involvements with strangers.
Make an online connection and meet quickly, I say.
2007-01-19 03:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Freshman year of college I met a girl over the net, lets just say she wasn't the girl in the Picture. Not even close so never again will I do that.
2007-01-19 03:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You develope feelings because you get to know the person internally instead of externally
2007-01-19 03:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amishcow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think common sense says think of anyone over the internet as just as friend, until with safety precautions you meet them in person.
2007-01-19 03:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋