me and my ex are trying to work things out..but one thing that i dont like the idea of him seeing me every other day..well he was over my house on tuesday left wednesday at 6:00am to go to work. we arent supposed to see eachother till thursday.well there were warnings that snow might fall and he loives 20 minutes from me so he said he couldnt see me czuz it might snow. well it didnt/ i found out he also left to go to his boys house and to go play basketball at that. on thursday. i tolf him i was upset cuz it seems messed up that he so call couldnt come see me cuz of the snow warnings but he could of gone to his friends house. and to go play basketball.now it friday n he goes out to the clubs on fridays. so i wont be able to see him either. how can i punish him for ruining plans. it never snowed and he knows that tue.thur.and sat are my days? what can i do to make him feel guilty. i had previously told him that he wasnt spending much time with me like b-4 and he still does this to me.?
2007-01-19 03:23:34 · 7 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him again. He may feel like he's being smoldered. Some men feel like that sometimes. You have to understand that he's got a life outside of you, and you should have the same. Don't try to make him feel guilty, it may push him further away from you. If this keeps up, you gotta let him go.
2007-01-19 03:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Heart please listen I have been in the same situation myself. Stop acting like he has to be with you on certain days. Get yourself a hobby and try not to schedule visitation days he is not in prison. I learned this the hard way. Try not to forget who you are without him. It can work just remember it's 50 50. You are not the boss. Relax and do somethings on your own.
2007-01-19 03:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ailyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like he is not to serious about working out this relationship. I could be wrong. So what you need to do is watch his actions but do not judge each action by itself, look at them together. Is he always making excuses? Is he trying to work at relationship. But only putting in minimum effort ?
Also ask yourself, Is this the future I want? Is this the best my life can get?
Only you control your future. ?
2007-01-19 03:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on there! the way i see it, he was going to see you on thursday, but had a basketball game on thursdays with the guys. he still wanted to see you, but he couldn't on thursdays because he peomised the guys he would play. so he desided that he could still see you on wendsday, and keep you happy, and also make the guys happy by playing ball with them when he told them he would. i think he should be applauded, not punished, for his vailiant efferts to make everyone happy. this shows that he still cares for you.
2007-01-19 03:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by drogo_brandebuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a guy that makes you upset, worried, angry and miserable?
Think about it.
2007-01-19 03:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UHM. he is your EX for a reason.
why dont you just move on and find some other guy?
quit barking up the same tree
2007-01-19 03:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't punish him because he doesn't care for you.The better question is why are you begging for his crumbs?If he wanted to be with you,he could and would,you certainly are at his beck and call so obviously he 's not as interested in you as you are in him.Deal with that.
2007-01-19 03:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋