have your significant other ever hit you or punch you before. for what reasons, do u think that is acceptable. iam just curious. i have been with my man for 5 yrs and i feel it is very unacceptable. he hit me and i have many bruises and pain on my body. he got mad at me because i cursed him out for hanging out late, he told me that as his woman, he can do whatever he wants. i disagree. what can i do about this. i mean since this was the first time it happen, how can i be sure it won't happen again, what do u think. thanks.
2007-01-19 03:15:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd dump him.
There is NO excuse. Unless you punched him and knocked him around, he has NO reason to touch you.
Dump him.
Your heart will be better off.
2007-01-19 03:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with this man! You have to leave this man if he is putting his hands on you. No guy has the right to physical or verbally abuse you. But if you deeply care for this person you should seriously talk to him. Tell him about the pain, he has cause you! If he continues on hitting you, leave him its not worth it. He doesn't love you if he puts his hands on you!
You should also tell the police about this. Get help before you are hurt again. Tell the police and then leave him!
2007-01-19 11:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait and ask for advise.. Get the hell out of that relationship. That is very unacceptable. My ex-boyfriend hit me once to infront of my daughter. I left him that day. There is no reasom for a girl to go through with something like that in a relationship.
2007-01-19 11:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a fool to stay with a man that hits you no matter how much you may think you love each other. the more you let him get away with it the worse it will get. you aren't going to like it when you are sitting in the ER waiting to be bandaged and sewn up.get out before it is too late.
2007-01-19 11:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by barb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be sure it won't happen again if you leave him NOW.............even one time is one time too many. Don't let him use you as his punching bag......it's not right, and you deserve way better than that. Show him that you're not going to stand for it and that you have enough self-respect to leave. Good luck with whatever path you pick!
2007-01-19 11:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will happen again. Leave him. My ex hit me once - and after he did it he said after it happened that it's always easier after you've done it once. Get out now.
2007-01-19 11:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get a restraining order. Dump this piece of sh!t and get this assault on record. It will help future victims as well.
2007-01-19 11:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by sol_s_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will happen again. I'm sorry to say but you need to leave him. It will happen again. It is never acceptable for that to happen.
2007-01-19 11:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hits you once shame on him, he hits you twice shame on you for being there. You must not think very much of yourself.
2007-01-19 11:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way it won't happen again is to leave him.. You don't need someone to beat on you....
2007-01-19 11:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kristi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋