My dad was killed 3 years ago in a high speed case and now I am having a baby 6 weeks! Its hard because I was daddys little girl and he won't be here to ever see my little angle! I miss him and it hurts! How do I get through that! (any-one else been through it?)
2007-01-19 03:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by baby_mamma123456789 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Im only 16 and I lived with him when he died! He was my every thing! I would never had a baby if he was here but now I love her more then I love myself!
2007-01-19 03:17:24 · update #1
I'm very sorry about your Dad. Not exactly the same situation but my father died 11 days after my first born...two years ago! I have so many pictures out of him and we talk to my daughter about him. This year for Christmas, my sister-in-law gave me a scrap book of photos of the family. My little girl and I sat down to look at...I pointed to a photo of my dad, "Who's this?"
"Poppa" my little girl responded!
So while it is very sad; my best response would be to talk about him. Make sure your little one knows exactly who he was and why you love him so much!
2007-01-19 03:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also lost my father at 16, im 21 now. Its only been 5 years, and its seems like it was just yesturday. The pain is stil here. But I know that he is looking over me and my two sons. I have yet to find a way to get through it totally. I have special things that I do around each holiday to remember him. He died on Thanksgiving, so every year I make his special pumpkin pie and soup. And then on Christmas I use his angel and I bought him a special rememberance ornament. I wish you all the best. It gets easier as time passes. Just know that he loved you very much and he is proud of you. God Bless!
2007-01-19 03:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my Dad also in 2005 and I too was a Daddy's girl. I really don't believe it gets any easier. I am still grieving and screaming at least 5 times a day. I miss him sooo much. He seemed to be the glue that held our family together. My life has almost all but unraveled. I still want him to be proud of me,so I keep going on because of him and I keep his memories alive in the young ones that were to young to remember him and I'll keep his memory going on in the ones that haven't been born yet. My Dad will go on to live for generations to come in this family! With the Grace of God and Him alone putting my heart back together again,Except for the big piece that will always be missing, one day maybe I won't cry as much and just maybe it won't hurt so much! I'll pray for you but keep your Daddy's memories alive in all the generations to come it's up to you now.
2007-01-19 03:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just get through it one day at a time. That's all you can do, really. My dad died 12 years ago. My mom died 22 years ago. I still miss them both.
Your dad sees you. He'll see your baby too. Trust me on that. You know, death is a powerful thing, but it can't stop love.
2007-01-19 03:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 42 year old, my mom died when I was ten, I still miss her. When my daughter was born, I was 36, I miss her being there. I wish I could tell it get easier, but it doesn't. You get use to it.
I lost my husband when my daughter was two. It is easier for her because she never knew him.
Her first day of school was hard. When you really miss them are special events.
Please take care of yourself and your baby. I hope you have help. God bless and good luck
2007-01-19 05:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey. Well join some groups for emotional support. And exercise to numb the mind. It takes time to work, like I'm now running 40 minutes at a time. It's wonderful now.
Oh, and know that he's allways wishing you well. We're not allowed to contact them but he is wishing you well.
2007-01-19 03:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry and i dont have any personl expierence in this situation but all you need to know is he is watching you every step of the way! even though you can see him he can sure as heck see you and when your in that delievry room he will be there and through every step of your life!!!
2007-01-19 03:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by AC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋