MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I LET HER MOVE IN WITH ME AND MY BABYS DADDY? EVEN THOUGH WHEN I WAS PREGNANT SHE HATED ME AND TRIED TO MAKE ME HAVE A MISCARRIAGE. MY BABYS FATHER SAY HELL NAW BUT I FELL SORRY FOR HER.
2007-01-19 03:12:01 · 19 answers · asked by shay16lips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't cause problems in your own relationship by bring her in. You have plenty with twins. Your boyfriend is against it.....I would definatately say no. You stated she hated you during your pregnancy....well, sounds like she burnt her bridges. She needs to find someone else's door to go know at---perhaps she shoud find her baby's dad...........?
2007-01-19 03:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, so much hatred in the world. Not everything has to be an eye for an eye. Look, she's your sister..Yes she was a butt to you. Yes it would put a strain on you and your boyfriend. So, what you can do, is everything in your power to help her without letting her move in. Help her find a place, a job, mend the relationship with the father of her soon to be born baby. Be her support. Do what it takes. She may have been disappointed in you when you got pregnant at 15, and it came out as anger towards you. Talk to her about that time in your lives. Ask her what happened then. Pray about it. Hope it works out.
2007-01-27 01:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you every want to have a good relationship with your sister. It is hard enough to live with the people you have to live with. Suddenly having 3 little babies in the house and having to cope with a relationship that is clearly strained to say the least will be a nightmare. You'll probably end up killing each other. You may feel sorry for her but she's not your responsibility any more than you are hers so say sorry but no, it won't work out.
2007-01-19 03:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says NO you do not want to cause and problems between you. She needs to live with her baby's daddy. It is his responsible for the baby not you. You are only 16 you should not have to take care of a house, two babies, a husband/boyfriend, and a pregnant sister. You have enough to take care of now at such a young age. You should not take on more.
2007-01-19 03:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by jackiebutrfli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let Karma take its turn with her...let her feel scared and alone. You don't need to feel sorry for her. How can you even think of forgiving someone who tried to harm your unborn baby?
Your sister should be old enough to live on her own and make things work for herslef. She is 23 and a full-fledged adult. You took control of your life and you are only 16! Good job and congratulations on your 2 beautiful babies.
2007-01-25 10:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand you feel sorry for her, but letting her into your home is only going to cause problems she wasnt there to support you, be there for her the way she wasnt for you,show her your a better person, try to give her advice, break it to her gently and tell her to find somewhere else cause your baby daddy dont want her there and your hands are already full and if she gets mad at you at least you know you did what you could, its her problem let her deal with it the best way she can.
2007-01-19 03:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hated you and tried to make you have a miscarriage, NO she shouldn't move in with you. She's mean. Let her move in with her baby's father or with someone else.
2007-01-25 17:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie Preston 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love and care for her . But due to the experience of the past. You can not take the chance of ruining the relationship you have for your family at hand . Bitterness will take part in your family if you let her in . She will have to find her way and think about the horrible way she treated you . Don't do it .
2007-01-25 16:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by iambettyboop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you should do what you feel is best for you and your child. One thing you need to remember is that boyfriends come and go, but family is forever whether you like it or not. So she acted like a jerk, maybe this is your way to prove you are the bigger person. Plus you never know later down the road you may really need her, and since you did this for her then she will help you. Of course, like I said before you need to decide what is best for you and your children.
2007-01-19 08:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by jessica c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋