I'm 17yrs old. I went into the hospital on the 7th of Jan. cuz of an overdose. It effected my boyfriend alot and he told my best friend while I was in the hospital that he didnt know if he could keep being with me becuase he was to weak to handle it but he wasn't going to break up with me while I was in there. I talked to him everyday and he said he missed me so much and that he loved me. Near the last few days of my stay at the hospital he started acting different like really depressed. When I got out and when I called him to tell him he was saying that he was going through such a hard time with his family, his friend just died, he was helping his friend with an addiction prob. and me in the hospital and he wasnt doing good with God. I understand and he said for now he needed space. Im doing my best to give it to him but im not good with that. we ended up talkng a few nights back and he got upset cuz he found out i was with my guy friends and freaked. he said he still liked me alot
2007-01-19 02:59:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.
2007-01-19 03:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you want to get back with your boyfriend and describe the terrible time he is having, but nowhere did I read that you are going to quit taking drugs. You know it hurts him enough for him to break off from you even though he loves you, yet you don't seem to want to stop. You can't have everything, nor do you deserve everything. With this boyfriend, maybe you have to choose - drugs or life. If not, then maybe you can find a new boyfriend that won't mind seeing you die on another overdose.
What you are going through is not all about you. You've got to grow up a bit and make some hard decisions - ones that will affect the quality of your long or possibly short life. Take care.
2007-01-19 03:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you need to take a breather.
you both are very young and are going through a hell of a time. i was in a hospital when i was seventeen also, my boyfriend stood by me...because we were friends...but we were just friends for a long time while i got my head on straight. we wound up breaking up once we hit college anyway...but I will always remember him fondly. my point is, you both have a lot going on right now. concentrate on your own problems, you can never be a strong woman or be there for someone else if you aren't sure of yourself.
Believe me, I know how hard it is...but you have to try and be there for each other as friends until you fix yourself. You are probobly freaking him out a little right now...he has a lot on his shoulders for someone his age and wants stability. You concentrate on getting mentally well...and the boys will fall into place...
2007-01-19 03:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend used to be a big user and he overdosed too. This was all years before I met him and he has turned his life around 200%. Are you wanting to get clean for YOU or for him?? Is he worth losing?? If you really care about him, you need to change the parts about you that you can change.. Show him you care about him.. Actions speak louder than words.. SInce he's going through the death of a friend, you need to respect that he wants some time with his friends/family. Don't smother him, but let him know you care.
2007-01-19 03:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might get back together ,just give him some time,he may blame him self for you taking an over dose and is scared to be with some one that will do that.take care of your self first and get into some counseling if he See's you are trying to get the help you need it may give him hope that you will be OK and not do that again.their is something wrong when any one tries to kill them self's you know! please get help ,are you feeling depressed counseling can help you hon,hope things work out for you and remember that ending it all is not the answer,some where in your future their could be something you could miss that will give you so much happiness ,get some help please .
2007-01-19 03:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard when you've got to take a break. but just keep praying and have faith. you'll see sunshine after the rain.
and i have a feeling y'all will get back together, i went thru something like that with my bf. if you love him, let him go, and if he loves you back, he'll let you know it.
just keep your chin up girl!
2007-01-19 03:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by baby_toiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that ur guy still loves u hes just scared of what u might do to urself and hes afraid to lose u. its apparent he loves u alot just keep talkin to him. tell him u love him and ur really sorry. he'll more than likely understand.
2007-01-19 03:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by The heartbreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You just gave him ammo to break up with you and make it look like your fault. Even if you did nothing with the fellars. he is going to us it against you.
2007-01-19 03:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comeing from a guys p.o.v. dont stick with him if hes that weak he can be there for you 110% while your struggling through o.d'ing... there is better things out there..believe me.
2007-01-19 03:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you overdosing?
get therapy
let the guy go, because he's weak!
2007-01-19 03:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO TO DRUGS that you can OD on girl!
DAMN!
It aint fun if you can die from it!
2007-01-19 03:02:16 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋