i dont think i would like it...
2007-01-19 02:30:56 · 23 answers · asked by ravey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem already got yourself answer. So its won't be ok because if you want to be friend with your ex and you have a new guy, what if ur ex ask you to hang out and even you wanna to be with your guy, it will be mess up your time. Or try your best to do by differnt time, hang out with your guy and then later hangout with ur ex, but hey don't do it wrong way1
2007-01-19 02:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I just want to get back what we had." What you had my dear boy was an eighteen year old girl dating the emotional equivalent of a fourteen year old girl. You are in no way emotionally ready for a serious relationship and you square pegged her into one before your third month. Yes, you were both seeing each other but unless you've been together for over a year or so, you can't call it a "serious relationship". You scared her off. You were clingy, needy, and making problems out of normal activities or out of thin air. Having been in that position before, I can actually say how stifling it is to mother your romantic partner because they're too emotionally immature to take care of themselves. What you really need to be doing is growing the hell up. Stop pursuing your ex - she's not all that interested and she won't meet you because she's afraid she'll take you back out of pity. You're twenty-four, you should be more adult than this. (That being said, I dated a twenty five year old who kept crying because he thought I was trying to leave him. That relationship lasted three months more than it needed to.)
2016-05-24 06:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Your new guy might not understand why you still want to hang out with your ex. This, of course leads to jealously and all that goes with it. DO NOT force your friend to meet your new guy. It will be very uncomfortable for you if you continue to pursue this and, because people are people and, ultimately, will lead to you having 2 "ex" friends.
2007-01-19 02:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by reallocojava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talk from experience when I say ex and new never mix well. Its a bit like oil and water.
Your new guy will be suspicious of your ex.
Besides your ex is an ex for a good reason. LOL
2007-01-19 02:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay, just because you broke up doesn't mean he doesn't still love you. Love doesn't go away because things don't work out. Real love that is. I give you credit for being friends but sometimes it's not healthy and one of the people in a relationship isn't letting go and moving on. I am not saying it couldn't happen but it takes a lot of work.
Don't push it and encourage him to move on too.
2007-01-19 02:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats understandable. more importantly why do you even care about making your new guy meet your ex? id see the point if it was your father refusing to meet him but your ex? thats just weird and unnecessary.
2007-01-19 02:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by LBoO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay, however, he might not be ready to meet up with the new guy. It may happen or not. Do not push him. But if you want to keep the friendship, you can. Maybe one day, he will feel ready and meet up.
2007-01-19 02:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by bubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must still have quite strong feelings for you, it might not be the right time to be friends at the moment, sometimes it takes people a long times for their feelings to neutralise and be able to be friends again.
Just give him time and I hope things all work out ok.
2007-01-19 02:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Linds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its ok but if he is your ex why would want him to meet your new boyfriend its not like hes your family maybe he dont want to meet him respect his wishs come on
2007-01-19 02:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care one way or the other what your ex thinks of your new guy? Sounds to me someone isn't quite over the other yet...
2007-01-19 02:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋