ok so i dated this guy for like 4 months and he said he would always love me and i ended up break'n up with him because of family problems.. and know he has a new grl and i am still in love with him...he still tells me he loves me but he is still with that other grl should i try to steal him back or just give up??
2007-01-19 02:27:29 · 17 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIrst you should take down your Christmas tree.... that will clear your head. And then kill his girlfriend and see what he does
2007-01-19 02:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEVER try or steal someone else's guy. You're getting yourself into a lot of trouble and karma can come back on you ten fold.
It's time for you to move on and let him deal with his own. If he loves you all that much, it will have an effect on the two of them and you might end up with him back but don't be the reason it happened. Let it happen on it's own. You're young and you have plenty of time to wait it out and you're also old enough that your wants won't hurt you.
2007-01-19 10:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, never type like that again. If I were a guy, I'd drop you in the blink of an eye for typing like a 12-year old AOLer (and my apologies if you are in fact a 12-year old AOLer)
But I digress
I hate to pop your bubble, but generally at your age (I'm assuming early teens) "always" and "forever" are words to be taken very, very lightly. If he loves you, then he wouldn't be with another girl and you wouldn't have to "steal him back." Let him go. If you were truly meant to be, he'll come around to you. If not - well, you've got all the time in the world to find Mr. Right.
2007-01-19 10:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Glory Box♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the guy truly "loves you" he wouldn't be with someone else, case closed. Why would you want to attempt to steal someone's boyfriend? If you were successful, would you REALLY want to be in a relationship with them afterwards (considering that they are so wishy-washy and non-committal)? Oh yes, and we mustn't forget how you will be compromising your self-worth in the process. We all know what type of person meddles in other's relationships. Cut the strings and move on to greener pastures, this situation obviously isn't worth your time.
2007-01-19 10:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was never your to begin with.A guy that can just "move on" like that never REALLY loved you.If he did he wouldve waited and even been there a s a friend until you got your situation settled. I think true love can conquer anything and if he couldnt past the first test of life and love he wont pass future ones.If he did this to you would you have waited for him?im assuming your answer is yes...mines would be.But he couldnt wait instead he let somone else take your place.REMEMBER YOUR NOT 2ND BEST TO NOBODY!!!
2007-01-19 10:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a love from both sides, it will come back. Stealing won't work. It depends on him, you cannot steal someone. You open the door of your heart and if he wants to come and be there, it happens spontaneously. You can't make someone stay in your heart. I went through the same.
2007-01-19 10:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by bubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel and let the chips fall where they may. Remember... you broke up with him. This doesn't put you in a good position to apply excessive pressure.If he loves you for real, he may eventually come back. He could be just feeding you some of your own medicine for the time being. Good luch. jason
2007-01-19 10:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up if it was meant to happen then you do not have to steal him back. If he comes back you know its real but if not you'll can be friends and that is better than losing him altogether because you tried to break his heart by messing up his relationship.
2007-01-19 10:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ying Yang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no if he really loves you he will reliazed it and go after you. Act like you don't care don't show jelousy and just let things pass in time if he really loved he he will go back to you. Trust me fromexperiance it works if you go after a guy sometimes not all the time it isn't good.
2007-01-19 10:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Advice_from_a_Teen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you'd try your best to get him back, talk to him, tell him how you feel about him, maybe he'll take you back. Another thing, family problems are your problems, you should'nt have broken up with him for it.
2007-01-19 10:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋