my bf is studying in France. Last time, when i chat with him, he let me know that he got a new gf who is french. several days after, his closed friend told me that my bf is making decision, stay in France or back to my country. He has only 3 months left for studying.
If he stays in France, he got that girl but not-a-good carreer. If he lives in my country, he got me and a very good career. The fact that he got a new girl is very unacceptable. But i dont wanna lose him.
what should i do now?
2007-01-19 02:25:04 · 24 answers · asked by coconut12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are nothing for you to do. Dump him, let him make decision. Don't you think he cheat on you already?? and you still want him? thats bad. Now dump him, its not worth for you to wait or work hard to get him even he did wrong thing? Move on
2007-01-19 02:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but he doesn't care about you if he has found another girlfriend.And besides, if he does come back, can you trust him now. You'll always be wondering about him finding someone Else. I kept my boyfriend for 2 years, before I realized that, he didn't love me, because he cheated 3 times. Two times were on business trips. Do you really want someone you can not trust? why did he find a new gf out there? Because, he can't commit to one person. Sorry, the best thing to do is go through the pain and hurt now, while hes gone, rather then going through it later on in life.
2007-01-19 10:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you don't want to lose him but you need to think about it. Okay your bf went to France and found a new gf. If he felt the same way you feel now, he wouldn't have left you for her. That's just my advice to you. If I were you I would just move on because I rather be free than worry about this situation. Okay.
2007-01-19 10:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by drcrim07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you feel his treatment of you has been unfair but that you will accept his decision on being with his new girlfriend. I know how very very difficult this must be for you and how you feel like just grabbing whatever crumbs of love he ditches out to you, but you must foremost hold on to your dignity or you will not ever have his love or anyone else's love either. To truly love someone you first have to admire and respect that person, so you must love yourself first and do not allow people to treat you badly.. Life holds many unpleasant challenges and this is one you will have to face. This is the time you will have to be strong and face misery head on and be determined to win out in the end. By winning I mean take heed of this hurt, endure the pain, fight the pain, and do all you can to stay strong, do things that are best for you, you will see, one day you will find that man that will really care and love you no matter what country he ever visits. Chances are he is sure of your love and once he knows you are not a pushover will come to his senses and admire your strength and you will see signs of a renewed respect from him. But do not waste your time waiting for him to decide. you go out and get busy on doing what is right for you. My very best to you!
2007-01-19 11:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like yours is a long distance relationship. Beware if he chose you over his new french girl. He has lost all the trust you have placed in him. He is not worthy of your love anymore. You deserve someone better. In the first place, if he really loves you wholeheartedly, he would not be falling for another french girl, leaving you alone, waiting for him at another arena, hoping he will come back. He has gotten someone new and he is nowhead over heels in this new relationship. I know you love him and can't bear to lose him but time heals all wound. Why don't you try to talk to him and at least you can come to a conclusion? But be prepare to lose him. BE strong.
2007-01-19 10:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it ride for a few months. Continue to chat with him but don't push for a decision. He did not say that they were living together or getting married. If you want to date other people, go ahead.
It's his life and his call. By telling you that he has a local girlfriend, that's an indirect way of letting you know that you are free to date others.
2007-01-19 10:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if he told u he got another gf then u need to let him go bc first off he has no respect for u and u deserve better. Let him make the decision he wants to make and if u guys are meant to be he'll be back!
2007-01-19 10:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by FiahRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, think about your future relationships and careers. Though His decision may affect you, you have your life to think about without him. He must be young. But you can't say he didnt tell you. His new gf probably wont last. And maybe he'll be back to you... but will you still want him then?
2007-01-19 10:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-19 10:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you are no longer BF & GF. He has someone else. Move on with your life. Find someone that will appreciate you for what you are worth.
2007-01-19 10:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋