This girl who I use to be best frriends with has lied to me and used me ever since I was a little girl. She won't stop with the lies and she doesn't know I know the truth. What should I do should I play her game and show her I'm not a little girl anymore and she can't just toy around with me anymore like I'm some sort of doll? And her kids are living at my house. my family is taking care of them. she makes up excuses on why she can't take them back yet. Like theres no heating in her place yet her dad slipped and told my dad that there was. So please help me.
2007-01-19 02:24:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like she is the little girl. She is using you to go out and have fun. You're her full time babysitter. Tell her that she's going to have to start paying you, and see how fast she wants them back. Feel sorry for the kids!! (Maybe she's on drugs, and they're better off with you.)
2007-01-19 11:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bust her out when she tells lies like that. I can't stand a liar or someone who wont take care of their children. I have an aunt who has six children and only 2 of them live with her. The only time she wants to have anything to do with the other four is when tax season comes around so she can claim them on her taxes. It's disgusting. But i would just basically bust her out and make her feel stupid because she's already making herself look stupid she just doesn't realize it.
2007-01-19 10:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kristi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be cut out of your life- she sounds like a 2,000 lb boat anchor tied around your neck. Her kids are not yours to raise, so I would call a family member of hers (her dad?) or someone that cares and tell them that this "friend" of yours has no interest in her own children and you can no longer house them. If they do not offer, I would unfortunately tell them I was going to call Child Services and have them placed in a foster home. No matter how long you've know this person- it is not your place to clean up after her and you are not really doing her any favors. Sometimes we have to be harsh.
2007-01-19 10:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by live75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost I know you know two wrongs don't make it right.If she is lying to you put her in check.If she isn't taking care of her kids that is what Dept of Social Services is for.Let them deal with the child care situation.When she comes back to your home let her know to go talk to them(Social Services0After that is done LEAVE THAT CHICK ALONE she sounds like trouble.
2007-01-19 11:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call social service. Obviously she has no interest in being a mother.
Although I wouldn't do it as revenve. Revenge is what causes war.
I would do it for the welfare of the children
2007-01-19 10:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is childish
Tell her that you KNOW about her lies. Tell her the proof you have.
Tell her you refuse to take it anymore, and then tell her that you refuse to have anything to do with her until she changes
2007-01-19 10:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is sweet,but you need to be the bigger person, don't sweat the small stuff.
2007-01-19 11:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but do get help for the kids
2007-01-19 11:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by MinniePearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes get revege. it fun. go out with the guy she likes. it be so funny
2007-01-19 10:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by smilyface292 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything... just ignore her... that will piss her off more than ne thing...
2007-01-19 10:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by U dOnT kNo BoUt .:~LJ~:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋