i met up with a guy that i knew yrs ago, we both liked each other back then but i could't go out with him for reasons which are personal, anyway i bumped into him again in sept and we exchanged phone nos.
we met up a few times and txted each other during the week for about 3 mths, the only thing is he had just came out of a 3 yr relationship which he didn't end and i know his ex has moved on and is in another relationship he did not tell me this as he doesn't talk about the breakup all his says is that his had enough of relationships and never wants another. i pulled away from him sexually because i know his not over her and i don't want to get hurt but am happy to stay in touch with him, i am crazy about him. i txted him at xmas to see if he was out one nite and we met up but something happen to ruin the nite and he end up been upset, i txted him a day later to see if he was ok he said he was going away for few days and wld get me a txt sometime, should i give him time or what.
2007-01-19 02:24:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u feel that he needs time to get over her ex yes ....but if u feel that its like a devil circle and he wont get over her soon better move on ...sometimes this timing its destroying even friendships , the whole relationship gets ill somehow , not healthy .
so the only person who knows if he will be ok is u , listen to ur instinct and act !
good luck
2007-01-19 02:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would let him get his head together before you try to get back in with him again. The poor guy is obviously in bits. If you feel the need to text him then tell him you are giving his some head space and to give you a call if he needs a sympathy beer. He will appreciate the gesture and the fact you have backed off. Give the guy some room and if he is into you then he will come to you.
2007-01-19 02:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i understand how u feel at the moment. confused.. this is completly up to you. if u believe u love him or u wont stop till you and him become an item then u should follow ur heart and wait for him. dont pressure him in anyway. he is still hooked on his ex from what i can gather so just give him some time to clear his head. and take it slow. goodluck hun all the best.
2007-01-19 02:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready to get involved again. When you want to know what is going on in a mans mind....... listen to his words. He told you he has had enough of relationships. He is telling you the truth. Give him space. If and when he is ready and you are still available, get together and see what happens.
2007-01-19 02:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch and show your interest, but give him time to get over the break up. Never underestimate the power your support will have on him, it may just lead to something more permanent.
2007-01-19 02:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him time to get over his ex. He's hurt and lonely, and probably needs time to think and work through it on his own. If he happens to need a friend to talk to, be there for him. Just be there for him when he needs you and give him some time.
2007-01-19 02:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 05:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes give him time. he may need a friend there and thats what you should be first and foremost
2007-01-19 02:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋