I amn beginning to think i am a loser, please give me your opinion. If these things listed happen to somebody, are they a loser?
You get popcorn thrown at your head in the cinema
You come out after college, and someone has pushed your moped over
You have to wear glasses
You come out of the cinema, and your car wont start, and people drive past shouting "ha ha loser
You get the courage to go for a night out with your one friend, and you get refused to be let in because you look too young even though your 21.
You buy a new CD from the shop, and a group of bullies find you and take it away and crush it.
everything always goes wrong for you
Please i really need your advice
2007-01-19 02:23:57 · 13 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You're not a loser (nor are any of us who wear glasses!). Losers are those who bully and discourage others. You're just living life. It's not a tv show; it's life. Stuff happens and, yes, it's comedy :)
2007-01-19 02:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by hopem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's start by saying your not a loser, your able to notice the immaturity of others and realize that it's wrong, but their to stupid to realize it because their the real losers here. At the cinema when they throw popcorn u must get up and take a stand no matter what earn yr respect, if yr moped is on the floor, look around u inraged and take a nice long yell out loud to let them know yr very upset, then turn around and be on yr way. Wearing glasses is a very cool and sexy thing so don't feel bad about that.If yr car don't start get it fix and when they drive by and call u a loser flip them the middle finger and say up yours, be proud u look young u only go aruond once so enjoy it.
2007-01-19 10:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by sanmaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry all this stuff happened to you. I don't think that you're a loser, it just sounds like normal stuff. I mean wearing glasses is actually considered fashionable nowadays. Maybe if you just start looking for the good things that happen to you instead of dwelling on the bad ones, your life will look better. I know that you're a valuable person.
Happiness!
2007-01-19 12:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only a loser if you believe you are a loser. Being the subject of childish pranks doesn't make you a loser, either. To me, it seems like you're on a winning track - you're attending college!
The only advice I can give you is to learn to like yourself for who you are. Be proud of who you are because you are special. There is no other person like you so hold your head high and be the best person you can be.
As for the pranks - they only do it because they can get a negative reaction from you. If you laugh with them then it ceases to be fun.
2007-01-19 10:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by myste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to tell you one thing. There's someone who loves you. Jesus loves you. And He doesn't look you as a looser. Neither do I.
Now I am quite sure that you suffer from rejection. That is to say, you feel rejected, and you're not the only one, I can tell you. You know, some people who seem successful suffer from rejection. They want to be noticed by other for that very reason. But in their hearts they suffer.
For more information you can read "The Root of Rejection - Escape the Bondage of Rejection and Experience the Freedom of Gods Acceptance" - by Joyce Meyer. It will help you much.
I'd like to help you so much. Friendly, Grosmine.
2007-01-19 10:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a loser go take some martial arts classes and start kicking some butt....take up for yourself to get respect you have to earn it sometimes the hard way...as long as these losers think they can push you around they will ,cowards pick on those they think won't fight back........your personal life is just that personal and your business.......take a stand ...for yourself!
2007-01-19 10:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by FallenAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, your not a loser.. just having a run of bad luck, it happens to all of us.
Pull yourself up, dust yourself off, and take a different course of action.
Take control of your life instead your life having control of you.
Does this make sense to you?
If not, try this..
Get off the Cross honey, somebody needs the wood.
2007-01-19 10:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a loser and always will be one until you decide that you aren't gonna be one anymore. Life can be tough. A loser lets life win when it want to beat you. You have to decide that you won't let it.
2007-01-19 10:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are most surely a loser. I suggest you buy some sunglasses and move to another city. Please note, do not wear the sunglasses until you are in the other city. Otherwise it wouldn't work.
2007-01-19 10:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a loser, but you may have the makings of a good comedian!
2007-01-19 10:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋