well i been dating this man for year now. and i think i am in love with him. but some of my family members think its a shame to be dating someone who is old enough to be my daddy. but i dont care what they say. cause the feelings i have for him is super real.i mean what is wrong with dating a man who is thirty year old?he takes care of me, he gives money,and he pays my car notes every month.and guess what i am just eighteen years old. so do any one think its something wrong with it?
2007-01-19 02:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going to have to agree with Janice. I'm dating a man in his 40's, and I'm in my 20's. He pays for dates and things like that but he's by no means my "sugar daddy" and I would never even think of bringing up money when talking about why I want to be with him. I'm in love with this man and I don't think anything is wrong with him being older than me and I don't think it makes any difference how old this guy is if you two are truly in love. However, ask yourself (and be honest when you think about it)... if he didn't do things for you or give you money, would you still be with him? If the answer is no, I'd strongly urge you to reconsider your reasons for staying with him.
And hey... if you really do love him, not just for the stuff he gives you... then you're blessed to have found somebody so wonderful for you. Of course people are going to say it's a bad idea. My family says things like that all the time and it's totally understandable why they think that. But if you know he's the one, then he's the one and there are no two ways about it.
2007-01-19 04:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by ya_tusik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's creepy how many times you bring up money issues in your description of "love". girl, he's just your sugar daddy. i'm dating a man twice my age and i won't even let him give me birthday money to avoid being associated with the likes of you.
2007-01-19 10:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by janicebks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is NOT wrong, but it is not prudent. Thre is a age difference of several generations. Sooner, or later, the two of you will run out of things to talk about, and do together, and this will tend to split you up.
2007-01-19 10:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it doesnt matter what anyone else says/thinks.
But in your shoes I wouldnt take it any further. You're too immature to be considering anything serious. You have MUCH living to do, and should experience what independence truly is.
2007-01-19 10:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant help who you love. It seems to me that he takes care of you and thats all that matters! Screw what everyone else thinks... Its your relationship not theirs! I was 18 when I met my fiance and he was 26 .. i also received hell from my family but i didnt care..
2007-01-19 10:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... where can I find a girl half my age? If you're an adult, go for it baby!
2007-01-19 10:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say sugar daddy?lol thats all he is to you
2007-01-19 10:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by bad b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure youre 18??? you said he was twice your age....anyways if its legal and he really loves you stay with him...
2007-01-19 10:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by lala diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋