im not a virgin but still, the first time i had sex, it hurt so bad. it took like ten minutes to get it in becuase it hurt so bad. when it was finally in, it still hurt but it felt kinda good. the second time we tried, it STILL hurt so bad. we tried for like 30 minutes to get it in. we tried both of us on top and doggy style... help! it really sucks when i can't make love to my boyfriend! =[ ADVICE??!!
2007-01-19 02:14:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it hurts so bad and takes so long that soon, we arent even in the mood anymore!
the second time we tried we gave up!
2007-01-19 02:15:21 · update #1
i was even bleeding a little...
2007-01-19 02:20:12 · update #2
Yes, its natural for it to hurt the first few times. Are you sure you're boy friend isn't to big for you? You might want to try some ky jelly.
2007-01-19 02:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tip - use lubrication
It'll 'get him in' a lot faster and easier
If you're too embarrassed to go to the store and get KY jelly or astroglide, (should be sold next to condoms) then you should be able to use either lotion or vaseline
2007-01-19 02:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a medical reason for this. I read about this happening before. Will need to check my medical books on this first
2007-01-19 02:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a smaller boy friend.
2007-01-19 02:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so honestly have hey give u oral sex or just have him loosen u up for a little while fingering u it always helped me with my gf
2007-01-19 02:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by bigtt2116 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you are to young.Second you need to use KY jelly for lubrication.If he used his toungue and got youn off first then you would have no problem. Quit rushing it.
2007-01-19 02:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his is too big for you or maybe you are not lubricated/wet enough when he try to put it in... its either you need to buy a lub or get yourself really excited first before he enters you...
2007-01-19 02:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you wet at all when you were trying? how small are you and how big is he? if you want to discuss in detail and want some more suggestions email me at miked452001@yahoo.com
2007-01-19 02:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lubrication, lots & lots
2007-01-19 02:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like ur too tight...gigity gigity
2007-01-19 02:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by xxbaughlin69xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋