Hi Janna,
When there is something bothering him as in worry, or a pressure from outside the relationship, he may appear to be out of love, but quiet the contrary, he is focusing on something that is causing him great concern, but has nothing to do with his love for you.
Be careful, as it is quiet easy to confuse the two and to cause the demise of a relationship. He may be the type who will keep problems or outside pressure to himself, thus giving the appearance of having fallen out of love. This trait would be prevalent in a person who is quiet by nature, and tends to keep things of a worry some nature to himself
I have a gut feeling, that is the problem and the best way to handle it is to just be there but do not crowd him, just make your love apparent but not in a smothering or crowding way. Allow him and lure him to come to you.
Darryl S.
2007-01-19 02:14:28
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answered by Anonymous
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No one falls "out of love."
There was no love at all in the first place, or, the person just simply gets over you. Sometimes, other people aid in this process. You know, like the saying goes, "no one helps you get rid of an ex like the next."
Love is not like an illness that infects you and then lifts one day.
Love is permanent. It never goes away, it is only increased and shared with others.
2007-01-19 02:04:10
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answered by Leo 2
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It's really very elementary. Of course you can feel it when a person, much more, your man has fallen out of love or is no longer interested. BUT first try to find out why there are some changes in his behaviour. It might not be what you think it is. Most men are not really expressive of their feelings especially to women. Find out if he has recent problems with his job, with his health, etc. There might be something that is bothering him that is why he seemed to have changed. Talk to him and reassure him you'll always be there for him and make him promise that he be frank with you should he have a change of heart.
2007-01-19 02:07:13
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answered by bethcelis88 2
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There a ton of signs of a man who fall out of love. Can't list them, sorry.
2007-01-19 01:57:06
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answered by MissGal 4
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its diffciult to tell at times...but some signs are, him not as calling you as much...(howver, he could also be really busy) but also, if he is hanging out with you less and less, feeling like he is a little more hesistant with your hugs and kisses, maybe his heart is starting to change.......BUT, honestly, this is something you cannot take our word for, bc we could be wrong, since we dont know the guy ur talking about, or seen his actions....the best thing to do is sit with him and tell him THIS THIS THIS is what I feel..... tell him that you've noticed that his feelings have changed for you, and if thats the case, he needs to be honest and tell you so that way neither one of you leaves a relationship with a broken heart...truth is the best way to handle relationships...even if telling the truth hurts sometimes...the heart always heals in the end...
i hope you find this information somewhat helpful, and good luck to you hun...remember, please just stay strong and positive.
2007-01-19 02:05:23
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answered by Anonymous
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1. Keeps weird hours
2. Could care less about what's important to you
3. Hangs out with friends more than usual
4. Doesn't care to spend time with you as much as before
5. Lack of sex drive with you
6. Constant arguing (even over small things)
2007-01-19 01:59:00
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answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5
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He willnever tell you I love you...and he will go ahead and have sex with someone without a care
He might also stop calling you and looks always occupied with stuff, hungs out less often and is not attentive when you talk
2007-01-19 01:59:27
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answered by cynnie 4
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When he starts "hanging" out with friends all the time. Finding any reason not to come home. Coldness.
2007-01-19 02:02:01
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answered by harleyhottie26 2
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Friendship instead of love.
Doesn't show his usual signs of affection.
Lack of interest in you.
2007-01-19 01:58:25
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answered by Great Dane 4
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When the person is calling you, you don't answer you phone you send it straight to voice mail.
2007-01-19 01:57:48
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answered by sexyvicky09104 1
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