my ex bf still flirt with me and he goes with his new girlfriend. should i break them up or wat becuz she only going with him becuz she's tryin 2 make her ex bf jealous and besides, i still luv him
2007-01-19 01:46:51 · 19 answers · asked by sharayla c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you should leave them alone.
2007-01-19 01:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always said... they call them EXES for a reason. Obviously something wasn't right between you two when things were called off, so what makes it different this time around? Could it be the appeal and jealousy that some other girl has his attention? Hm. Who knows... only you do. You sound young anyway, and this dramatic Day of Our Lives stuff is something that you don't need in your life. Why don't you focus on a future for yourself starting with concentrating on school. It sounds cliche, but there aren't many employers out there looking for homewreckers.
2007-01-19 09:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you break them up and he gets back with you it doesn't sound like a recipe for success. If he is your ex move on. You need to get on with your life and leave the past in the past. That means you put him behind you. He isn't your concern anymore. After all, it sounds like he has a hard time knowing what he wants in life. Maybe you came out lucky discovering this now.
2007-01-19 09:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes doing this to just make you jealous, then let him do it, and YOU can play the same game... show him that you can care less about this new girl, even though it may be really hard to do, it is possible! you have to clearify to see if he really does want to be with someone new, or if this new girl is just a game he is playing...so by playing hard to get, you will find out where his heart is...trust me.... this is a guarteeeneddddddddddd shot at working.
2007-01-19 09:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem don't care about yourself?? Now think about it. Is that worth for you to break them up and have him back? what would u do if he broke up and still not go out with you ever?? Think about that.
2007-01-19 09:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered yourself. She is just trying to make her ex bf jealous...dont you be jealous.
2007-01-19 09:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! If you love him, tell him!
If he don't react the way you wanted, you'll have to accept that fact.
Remember, you reap what you sow. Karma is no joke.
2007-01-19 09:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Opas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right for you. Maybe you could get some three way action going!!
2007-01-19 09:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not okay to break up another couple.
If he loved you, he would be with you.
Move on and find somebody else.
Good luck!
2007-01-19 09:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him then why is he your ex? and he obviously moved on so you need to as well. that is not fair to try to ruin his relationship because you are being selfish.
2007-01-19 09:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...if he truly wants to be with you then he would break up with her...it should not be you that spoils their relationsip....if he is with her and not you that should tell you something....move on.
2007-01-19 09:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋