i used to be skinny now ive had kids ive put it on but why do men have to call you a fat ugle slag when am not,
some men carnt talk they ant all that.
2007-01-19 01:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by vanessa22gera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldn't let anyone put you down I bet there are a lot of men that would jump at the chance to be with you. I for 1 don't like skinny women who ever your with is a jerk for saying things like that
2007-01-19 01:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by spuds36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the good men will look for what means the most and that is the heart of a woman! Trust me I was in the same boat! Three kids, single and not skinny. Im not fat but after three kids the pair of size 5 jeans just dont fit anymore if you know what I mean. With time came a great man who loves my kids as if they were his own and loves me just as much too. He doesn't care what I look like just cares about how much we make each other happy and making the best life for our family. And that my dear is what a "REAL" man will look for!
2007-01-19 09:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by tiffany s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are good to a lot of men.Perhaps you might try lowering your standards. Before you had 3 kids and put on some weight I bet you didn't look at unattractive or over weight guys and want to be with them.
2007-01-19 09:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had 3 kids not 30 so you can always try to do something to remedy matters. Seems like your mixing with the wrong type of guys too. No respect.
2007-01-19 11:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the fact that you've got 3 kids, you're fat, and only 22 scares guys away. But keep looking, I'm sure there are a lot of guys that are looking to hop on the bimbo welfare train.
2007-01-19 09:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by sol_s_99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel good about yourself it shows to other people. If you feel bad about your body do something about it. I know that's easier said than done but lack of confidence shows and if you start feeling better about yourself men will respond to that. But remember that any changes you make need to be for you, not for a man.
Good luck and know that you are a beautiful woman, inside and out.
2007-01-19 09:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by vickyc76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VANNESSA, Sounds like your going through a bad time ? take time out , leave the kids with him when you go for a run in the morning , again in the evening when you go to the gym , buy all the healthy food for keeping trim,
After a short while he ll get the message.
2007-01-19 09:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by katrinasfather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men who talk like that aren't worth knowing anyway. But i do think us men put alot of importance on looks in a girl, thats just the way it is
2007-01-19 09:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
male insecurity!!! some anyway try to put you down usually so they feel better themselves!! men are very visual perhaps they should look in the mirror every now and then...... comment not intended for the nice chaps out there!
2007-01-19 09:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by placidma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel like that. if you have put on some weight, start taking it off. it will make you feel better about yourself. feeling better about how you look will help how you present yourself to others.
also, any man who calls you fat ugly or anything else is not worth your time....
2007-01-19 09:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋