So we went out to a bar last night, with her friends, who have happened to go to the same college as I, but I did not know them. I had a lot to drink and I apparently went off about how much money I had, and how I am rich (which I am not, and I have about $2 to my name). Now I did not insult any one personally or single anyone out. I was just ranting about how much money I had (which I don't). When I woke up this morning she told me about it and she was pissed, no kiss hello, etc... When I was leaving she didn't even say good bye until I said "No Good Bye". Now I did apologize and admitted that I was complete idiot, and said sorry for embarrassing her in front of her friends. We have standing plans for Sat., my question is, when do I try and talk to her next? Do I email her again today saying I am sorry, do I call (don't know if she would answer), and two think she is going to dump me?
2007-01-19 01:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by andberg1182 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to say you did make a fool of yourself. But it should be OK. i mean you didn't sleep with one of he friends so it is not that bad. I would say buy her flowers but i am not sure what kind of flowers you can get with 2 bucks. But if you can send them to her job with a note explaining that you are sorry and had to much to drink. That will really help. Because as women we love flowers and love nothing more then getting them in front of other women who aren't getting them. Also try not to drink as much so the next time you go out you don't do this again good luck to you.
2007-01-19 01:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The email would definitely help, since she might not take your calls...be sweet, and apologize as many times as you can :) Tell her you love her, and that you will refrain from drinking that much ever again while you two are in public (behind closed doors is fine, as long as you're nice to her)and that you didn't realize at the time how much of a jerk you were being...anyway, I hope things work out. Good luck!
2007-01-19 01:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing in not trying to deny you are an idiot .. a drunk idiot but nonetheless an idiot. I don't think she's going to dump you. I would e-mail her, again apologize (you can't apologize enough when you've phucked up in a major way) and say you are looking forward to Saturday and having a good time.
2007-01-19 01:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to go fishin', Dude! This girl has labeled you an idiot and that's all you'll ever be to her. Women have extra long memories. Why live this life of constantly trying to make up with her. Trust me, I endured a 30 year marriage trying to do that.
2007-01-19 01:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her your not going to keep apoligizing, you had too much to drink and to get over it ! girls hate a week guy, they are sooo easy to mold into what you want your puppet to be , understand ? let her call you.. if she asks why you didnt call-- tell her you felt she didnt want to speak to you . call her only if you ,which you should....... cancel for this sat. get together , maybe she'll miss you not being there AND lay off the boose limit yourself to 1 and sip it !!
2007-01-19 01:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by transplanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to NOT drink again.....EVER! Call her a couple times and beg her for forgiveness, and then promise you will never drink like that again, and that you will never DO that again......send her flowers with a note telling her you're sorry.....
2007-01-19 01:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by rocketgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her flowers and a nice apology card and it will be fine. ; ) Good Luck ♥
2007-01-19 01:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be busy grovelling for forgiveness, not asking us questions. Get busy you mad fool!!!! (you should perhaps quit drinking - you can't handle it!)
2007-01-19 01:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just keep on saying sorry .....even if it was not ur fault...........this is wht girls expect...........so go ahead........sorry card,sorry e card,sorry sms,sorry phone calls.
2007-01-19 01:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋