how can you fix a damaged relationship??

Question

We've been dating for 3 months now and we love each other, but lately we just cant make things work.

Answer 1

Depends on what the damage is, and the source of your problems. Make a list...each of you...write the pros and cons of staying together. Make another of the pros and cons of splitting up. Share your lists with each other. Look at the order things are written down in, there is significance in that too. See if this offers solutions to working it out, or proves that separate ways would benefit both of you.

Answer 2

3 months isn't a very long time Hun, but in any relationship it takes a while to get to know each other better. If you can't seem to get along at all anymore maybe it's time to a good look at your relationship and decide if it is 1 you want to TRY and salvage. I would say if your having all these problems now, that there may not be alot of hope for the future.

Answer 3

i dont think a damaged relationship is fixable......however it was damaged (had to of been serious)...that will stik in the back of your mind forever believe me(first hand experience).Everytime we tried to fix things it wouldnt owrk cuz i was insecure.I always was wondering if he was doing it again or whens the next time hes ganna do it etc...You wont officially be happy.And since its only been 3 months just let go now before youre too deep in the relationship to get out.I let my 7 yr relationship get out of control.And now I hate him.I never wanted to hate him but i did it to myself by letting things get sobad. I f i had a chance to go back i wouldve left him that very first time and not looked back.

Answer 4

can't say a word,but if you can't work out things now that your only in the stages of getting to know each other how much more if your relationship is much longer...the things is set your differences and discuss open communication is the best way for a healthy relationship..

Answer 5

Maybe that's your sign to move on. If you're having problems in the beginning, I promise you it'll only get worse and you'll probably end up hurting each other and becoming total enemies.

Find someone you click with not try to fix someone you clash with.

Answer 6

you have to work on all the things that you two dont seem to see eye to eye about...sit down and try talking to work out your issues
if you feel your relationship is worth it then work on it relationships are hard work its two completly different people trying to be one and some times it sucks but if there is so much more good times then bad times stay focused on the good things about your boyfriend and understand noone is perfect

Answer 7

its a young relationship...those things happen...better to find out now than later...move on to someone else...

Answer 8

give it time

Answer 9

how about a band-aid?

Answer 10

not too sure