my life is soo depressing atm plz help me (i accidently lit the kitchen on fire i dnt no wat 2 do????)?

Question

it all started a cpl of days ago, i was goin out 4 dinner with my boyfriend and his parents everything was fine nd den wen my boy friend nd i came home. i was goin2 cook some chips so i heated some oil in the kitchen. i went2 the toilet nd totally 4got bout the oil. it lit on fire the whole kitchen was in flames. i didn't know wat2 do the first thing i thort was omg wat hav i done i ran2 the laundry got the bucket nd filled it up with water nd ran2 the kitchen 2 put out the fire. it went out but my older brother had oil on his legs nd got burnt a bit. my older sister is goin 2 go away 2 adelaide on monday she says that she can not trust me i think this has nothin2 do with trust i understan wat happened was irresponsible.it was an accident she is restricting me2 see my boyfriend, she is takin away the one person i can only talk2 it is unfair! i am goin2 find a job but i hav no employment skills i have never worked be4 i am currently 16 yrs of age nd in need of great guidance plz help me

Answer 1

you could start by learning how to spell and write

Answer 2

OK so there are things you could have done better to keep the kitchen from burning. Well let me tell you as an adult I have left many a thing cooking and have forgotten about it to find it either ablaze or at least the smoke alarm going off when I came back. It is a common mistake, and one that should be forgiven. Where are you parents hun? A mistake like this does not require grounding, it requires you being taught how to properly cook and not allow you using the stove until you do, it is hardly a capital crime.

What needs to be done is you need to go to a counselor at school or an adult friend in whom you can trust, and have them help you talk to your sister. Wanting to get a job at your age is fine, and most children start out af fast food restraunts are in the mall. I do not know where you are from so it is hard for me to say exactly what job would suit you so just get out there and look. Some places will train as you go. Also stay in school just work part time. Make sure you get to college as well.

I am sorry this is happening, but don't blame yourself to much for the mistake, and don't be afraid to talk to an adult, your sister's parenting skills probably leave a lot to be desired and maybe she just needs some help.

Answer 3

I have been a chef for years and have done things like that, although I know not to put water on it, cover it with something, a blanket or sand or similar, water will usaully make a fat fire much worse. My son has done it, I have seen it plenty of times. Turkeys left in the oven overnight. EVERYONE makes mistakes its nothing to do with being irresponsible. Thats how you learn your lessons, wrap you up in cotton wool and how will you fend when you are 21?

Answer 4

You should first what where be there can you or your boyfriend dad should would you or wouldn't me bother one of a kind. So it happy but happen can she be just oil drop odor dinner for four should be what be where.

Answer 5

I think that you should go and talk to a counselor or social worker about this. Those can give you the best advice and not here. gdluck