im 18 and so is my bf,we have been togther for 1 year and hes lives 1 hour 30 min and i normaly see him once a week on a saturday cause hes at school and im at college weekdays.well my bf has A level exams so i didnt see him alast week and i posted before about it.
well i got so depressed not been able to see him and cryed most of the saturday.but on saturday night i whent out with my m8 which cheered me up.thing is tonight and tommow and sunday all my friends said they are busy and wont be able to see me.im already strarting to feel depressed knowing that i wont be able to see my bf tommow cause of revsion.
what things could i do to cheer me up,iv watched all the dvds and videos in my house.
2007-01-19 00:56:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
visit with family im sure something is going on in yer town check it out get drunk get a tattoo go shopping eat a tub of ice cream
2007-01-19 01:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is in the military. He is gone often. Now- he is in another state attending a school for three weeks. Before we were stationed overseas and he was on a ship that was gone for months at a time, he was gone more than he was home.
My advice is to get on with your life. Sitting around crying passes a few minutes of time, but bets assured he isnt sitting around crying over you. Guys dont do that.
Find a hobby, or a game on the computer to play. Also, go to the gym, take a walk or rent a work out video.
Learn to cook a new meal or give yourself a mani and pedicure.
My point is this- when you get back together or talk on the phone and you say I have cried about you all day- he isnt thinking that is sexy or hot. But if you say you have been to the gym or you have done something new- he will think damn- she did that without me? That makes things hot and exciting. Not laying around crying.
2007-01-19 01:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by jeweledfruit 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Do something good and positive for yourself to keep your mind off the fact you're not with him. Exercise, go for a walk, organize your room, read a book, study ahead for college classes, do research for the career your going to choose, map out all of the courses you must take to finish degree, think about where you'll take your next vacation and research it on the net, write him a letter, think of some way you can show your love when you're not with him, write him a poem, find song lyrics that remind you of him, find one kind thing you can do for someone else that they're not expecting, call family you havent spoken to in a while, go to a pet store, go window shopping (leave credit cards n money at home!).....hope these help!
2007-01-19 01:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get so down girl. If you think this is bad, imagine NEVER r being able to see him again. And chances are one day yall will split. No pun, its just statistics. Take this time to be constructive. Your not alone, you have someone out there. ANd, Im sure he is thinking of you. Dont become to infactuated with him physically. You will be ok...Listen to some good music..
2007-01-19 01:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by michael b 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, if you are as needy and clingy as you are making yourself sound, I am not surprised that no one wants to see you this weekend! For God's Sake give yerself a shake and reclaim your life!
2007-01-19 01:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read a book, go to the gym, keep yourself busy. Try not to think about it. I know easier said then done, but you have to try. ....Hang in there!
2007-01-19 01:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him something sweet and mail it to him, go to hobby lobby and get some crafts to keep ya busy
2007-01-19 01:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by collegechick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Web cameras and video phones
And your naughty imagination (both of you.)
2007-01-19 01:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him if possible and talk to him. Then try to go somewhere interesting!
2007-01-19 01:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Nyasi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you have to find another beau
2007-01-19 03:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋