I used to work with this guy when i was a holiday rep and he worked for the same company! We always got on well and as I was with someone at the time nothing ever happened. We have kept in email contact with him and I am going to see him next weekend and staying over at his place which is a few hours away....
I am kind of concerened that he will think I have changed too much... and I am not what i was a few years ago... any tips on stopping being so nervous and how i should act?
2007-01-19 00:46:11 · 13 answers · asked by Lola* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go for it play it cool at first
2007-01-19 00:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lola...... stop the worrying!!! Just be yourself! The person inside has not changed. He kept in touch with you and now wants to meet up with you for a reason. If you had changed in the 2 years, it would have been evident in conversations. Don't be nervous (I'm sure he is nervous too so that's not going to help that you're both nervous). Be yourself .... the same person that charmed him in the first place. :-) You'll be okay. Best of luck!
2007-01-19 08:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Paulyterp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont expect what you were familier with 2 years ago, Try treating this like a first time experience. Be yourself. I always think will never be as good as i hope but better than i fear. Good Luck !
2007-01-19 09:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by bluescampifry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat this as what it is an old friend meeting up after a long parting, talk about what you have been doing over the past years enjoy one anthers company
2007-01-19 08:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by D D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like yourself. You are a couple of years older. People change. If he doesn't like the new you then it wasn't meant to be. Keep in mind that he has probably changed also.
2007-01-19 08:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Damian S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot happens in two years. You must look on him as a friend at first and see if you still fancy him
2007-01-23 04:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Professor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just meet you have nothing to loose. i'm sure he ain't changed too much , and if he has you both still have things to catch up on from the last to years. have fun cause thats what life is about
2007-01-19 08:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by dan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. have something to alway talk about- keep wine flowing but dont get too drunk, have some fun, let your hair down, go bowling or something. dont take advantage of him on first date,lol
goo luck and dont worry, just be yourself
2007-01-19 08:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and seek some advise from the people who were with him for the past two years! maybe, they know what he is and have an idea hoe he is.. Try it...
2007-01-19 08:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by GURUBARAN V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.....and have fun!!!!
everyone changes for the best so we all change....just get to know him....do not rush it.....
start out as friends....then if something happens from there then go there..... good luck...have fun!!!
2007-01-19 08:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he must have changed too, if he hasn't then I would be worried! people have to change to mature. Be yourself, don't change the way you are to please someone else, you won't be able to sustain it. It's not worth it in the end.
2007-01-19 09:01:21 · answer #11 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋