So there's this guy... can you help!?!?
Well there is this guy that I like and he's really nice,but every time we get closer to each other and know each other more for some reason I end up pushing him away. And now he's got a GF and I still want to be friends with him. Do you ever think we might get to be more than friends eventually? Well if I stop pushing him away. and how do I stop myself from doing that? Am I really afraid of something? HELP!
2007-01-19 00:41:41 · 12 answers · asked by buttons527 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh... yeah he got the GF while we knew each other he hasn't always had one.
2007-01-19 00:47:44 · update #1
Courtney He Has a GIRL!!! he may not be that flirty b/c of it and good for him!!!! but if they split BE THERE!!! and then it will come naturally if it was ment to be.
2007-01-20 07:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by ஐKatஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe if you really like this guy you would not be pushing him away the only reason i could see you pushing him away is if you afraid of a relationship or getting to close maybe you should take the time and sit down and think about your life what could have made you so afraid then when you find the answer then you can find a solution to your problem.
2007-01-19 08:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda_castle2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are but you obviously are not ready for a boyfriend OR a relationship...just take it easy date a few people or go out in a crowd til you find someone you feel totally at ease with...your brain is the one pushing this guy away...listen to it...it probably has good reason for it.
2007-01-19 08:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when he dumps jis gf if that happens get to know him much better kk nad then wen he trys a move on u like he as been doing dont push him away dont be scared give it bk to him like a snog or a kiss on the lips nad hold is hand saying u want to be with him
2007-01-19 08:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to grow up. You're obviously not ready for a mature relationship yet. That's not a bad thing. Find something else constructive to do with yourself in the meantime.
2007-01-19 08:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question. I like this boy and all but see he likes my friend, but my friend hates his guts. Maybe you should try to talk to him but not with deep love. As in don't stair at him when he is talking to you and think in your head "oh you are so smexy" I don't do that but l know someone who does. But maybe you two could become more then expected in the future :)
2007-01-19 08:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you are afraid in starting of a relationship, you may still haunted by your love history. check and find what keeping your felling like that.
2007-01-19 08:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by OLGA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to take it slow and let it work on its own and let things come in time and so you be seeming desperate but you wont be pushin him away just try to be patient
2007-01-19 08:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuuhhhh yeah i've got nothin
2007-01-19 08:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by ksf122385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend then likely not.
2007-01-19 08:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋