I sometimes gag when I give oral sex. Any advice on stopping that? I also don't swallow. No guy has ever complained, but they seem disappointed. Is that really a big turn off?
2007-01-19 00:17:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Practice makes perfect, so in time that gag reflex will be worked out... Oral is very pleasureable to aguy, and I will say that in my life I have had girls finish the job and it was the greatest sensation ever. I think the secret to it is that as the guy ejaculates you just swallow without letting the semen rest on your tongue. Some women like the taste, others don't, but if you have never tried it before you owe it to yourself (and your guy) to try at least once. I love giving oral to my wife because it satisfies her in a number of ways - but I had to learn to be good at it and get past my hang-ups about odors and tastes. I find it pleasurable to me hearing her get off and enjoying what i am doing, and I am sure the same can be said in the reverse.
2007-01-19 00:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by McB 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think it's a turn on when a girl gags, but to stop gagging you just need to keep practicing. as for swallowing, you should be at least taking the load in the mouth, than spit it out if you are unable to swallow. and most of the time, you won't get many complaints after giving head....
2007-01-19 00:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My guy has had girls that swallow and I can't. Well, I've swallowed, but it comes right back up.
So he doesn't care. He mainly cares about the orgasm and now thinks it's funny when I go to spit it out! LOL It amuses him and he likes to watch me! LOL
If they're disappointed find someone who's not. They could be having to pay for it and they're probably lucky that anyone would want to suck them off anyway!
2007-01-19 06:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon to gag. You have something in your mmouth that will occassionally get into or nerar to your throat causing a gag response. That you can supress with practice. If swallowing semen is important to some man, hold it in your mouth and spit it in his and let him swallow it. Sheesh, you are not required to perform oral sex on anyone, nor are you required to do it in some specific way.
2007-01-19 00:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ha Hah, Im sorry Lok k, plp dont read the question and give dumb replies. Im s0z i wouldnt know how to not gag since I am a dude and do not want to suck on some1 (thats a dude). But ne way, If my girl did have oral sex with me it would be a real turn off if she didnt swallow. I dunno why, It seems more pleasurable if the girl swallows and lets us know they like it. Its kinda degrading n weird but I think thats what most of us think ^^
2007-01-19 00:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
when you start to feel the tickle like your gonna gag, just focus and relax, take it slower, go real slow and see how much you can take in w/o gaging, this way you can go faster and know your limit then you can slowly try to go down further, as far as swallowing i hate it, but i do it for my man, try using whip cream, makes it slide down easier and it makes swallowing not as bad
2007-01-19 02:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by collegechick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and dont try to take all of his penis down your throat. Take your time and work on the hea and shaft with your tongue first. As far as swallowing thats up to you. I enjoy it but many people dont so do what is comfortable for you. When the times comes let it go to the back of your throat ant then swallow on down.
2007-01-19 00:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am just like you I also gag but dont know how to stop that, not really a big turn off.
2007-01-19 00:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by bette69 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Mines is ussually clean so if you want to stop gagging then set up an appointment with me anytime. You don't have to swallow but you do have to rinse.
2007-01-19 00:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
its your choice if you want to give oral sex.
i dont like giving oral because I gag too.
i have lived the same man for 17yr and he has never forced me to give him oral .
to some guys, I guess it would be. just ask the guy you are with. and be truthful.
2007-01-19 00:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋