theres a guy that ive been noticing for a long time he works at a place i visit all the time.when i see him i feel like i cant breathe i get butterflies and he's all i can think about for hours later.i know this sounds crazy but i have a feeling we're ment to be...i dont no why its just how i feel,i dont even know him.when i first ever nothiced him when i was 14-15 i was real slim a very female body uno all the right curves in the right places!i always looked immaculate perfect hair and make up i walk past him giving him a flirty stare and flickin my hair and he noticed me alright he'd stop what he was doing just to watch me walk by and im not the type to say that if i didnt believe it!! anyway now years and a baby and gained weight later we still do the whole stare thing but i feel like absoulte sh*t i look so different because i put on alot of weight now im like a size14-16 and i just dont believe i'd have a chance with him anymore how do i find out? im too shy to even speak to him.
2007-01-19 00:06:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also its not that simple cause im actually in a real shitty relationship but i think i could leave it if i had a chance with this guy that i actually like.
2007-01-19 00:07:53 · update #1
Get out of your bad relationship (why wait????), start taking care of yourself, get healthy, and then make your move. You are not ready for a relationship now, with anyone.
If you really want to pursue it, I am sure the guy would be open to some no-strings attached sex... he is a guy, after all. Just offer.
2007-01-19 00:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is....why u waitin to get outta the crappy relationship if ur havin thoughts of other guys? Why do you need to have a chance with this one particular guy before you'll leave the dude you're with? End the other relationship! Once you've done that, you can break ice with this guy by saying, "Hey, I've watched you for years, but have never been available. I'm not seeing anyone right now, and want to know if we could quit staring at each other and actually go out and get to know each other?"
Have someplace or something in mind, cuz obviously he's not aggressive and will prolly jus stand there with his jaw dropped. Suggest something, n he'll prolly say..."uh...uh huh. i'd like that"
It's THAT simple!
Gotta be honest, tho...i feel for ur man.
2007-01-19 08:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by taking off the weight and get down to a size 10 first. This will help you confidence and of course your appearance. Having a baby is now excuse. Either you want to look good or you'll stay overweight.
2007-01-19 08:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL MAYBE YOU COULD TRY LOSING SOME WEIGHT, DO YOUR HAIR AND DECIDE IF YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO CONTINUE OR NOT. THEN YOU COULD GO UP TO HIM AND ASK HIM FACE TO FACE
2007-01-19 08:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Peter J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm.............. its very difficult!
2007-01-19 08:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by sweetharts_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋