What Can I do or say to make my boyfriend want me? I have already posted a question its just that I am quite a difficult person to get on with and we have got on so well! I cant move out its going to be difficult, he wants me to move out although we have been living together for 4months. What do I do and say? I cant leave him, It would ruin everyuhting
2007-01-18 23:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant, probably best to move on
2007-01-19 00:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by zan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much that you can do; if he's showing you the door, then the best thing that you can do is go through it and attempt a reconciliation from a distance. Having been on both sides of this fence, I can tell you that the worst thing that you can do is grovel and lower yourself in your partner's eyes. You'll lose his respect; without that, you have no relationship. Distance is what you both might need.
2007-01-19 08:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by ObscureB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move Out! he doesn't want you, do you need a brick house to fall on you? There is nothing you can say or do, you will only make it worse, just go, why would you want someone that doesn't want you, GET GOING!
2007-01-19 07:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by moving out it will also help you to think about how sure you are to be with this men and vice versa,keeping your distance away with you loved one helps your relationship to grow a lot stronger and better and it also help you to prepare your future with him in so many ways i know its hard to do the first step but just take it day by day and i guarantee you it will be a lot better once you did it and good luck to you
2007-01-19 08:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not happy you cant make him
sounds like the best thing to do is move out sry but if you cant be happy together then its not helping either of you
2007-01-19 07:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and take things easy for a while. see if you can remain friends and if you can just try and rekindle that relationship slowly.
Good luck!
2007-01-19 08:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's being that difficult, talk to your mortgage provider and see if you can swap the mortgage to being just you, if you rent, go and rent somewhere cheaper you can afford yourself, or get a joint mortgage with a mate or something............just sort your finances and see where you can go, he obviously aint enjoyin the relationship anymore, so talk to him about why or leave!
Action speaks louder than words though!
2007-01-19 07:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by J9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want u, u need to realise that you cant have much self respect if u stay. move on and find some1 who deserves u!! lifes too short not too b happy!
2007-01-19 08:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by BscHons 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋