I am frustrated in love ...the girl whom i l loved n had affair with ...is also having affairs with many other guys....she still want to love me..I am true to her in every sense but all this is leading me in pain ....
I am in confusion whether she really love me or not ...?
I just want to forget her ....but i cant ...
i need help
2007-01-18 23:54:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHE IS TAKING CHANCE WITH MANY PERSONS BECAUSE IF SOMEONE DENY SHE CAN GO FOR OTHER.
2007-01-24 02:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she loves to have a good time with you and flirt with you, just enjoy the company. If she keeps affairs with many guys, she must be very much into flirting. If she likes it, you can enjoy the same with her. If you want her to leave all other guys for you, ask her about it. If she disagrees and still is ready to keep company with you, be her pal. Else find someone else.
2007-01-20 05:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Raj Narayan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still loves u or not isn't the thing, u should b worried abt coz she obviously isn't as far as i think coz if u luv sumone1 very deeply then u won't b unfaithful to them. but r u sure abt her affairs? it mite b just a f'ship? coz guys tend to b very posessive at times. so try to find out that 1st. if it is true then u need to forget abt her coz it's her bad luck that she couldn't last her relationship with a guy who really loved & respected her. don't worry 1 day or the othr she has to regret n she will. u'll definately find a nice girl, only if u try to move on. coz life is all abt movin on. u can't keep tellin urself that "i can't 4get" coz some things r meant to 4get & that's how life is! gud luck.
2007-01-19 08:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman has some very deep and dark secrets affecting her and is scared to let anyone know so this is the only way she can free her mind.Maybe you should sit and have a very serious discussion with her and try to know what is bothering her and let her know of your true feelings.You dont just give up on love you try to help the people you love.If she know of your true feelings she might open up to you and maybe you guys can work things out .Best of luck to you.
2007-01-19 08:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only to forget her is to forgive yourself and then move on with your life. I am telling this from my own personal experiance.
I was as a matter is still am in a situation similar to ythat of you.
My girlfriend also left me for whatever reason that i don't know.
But still life is going on for me right.
Just get hold of another girl and show her to your former girlfriend and then see what happens.
Just keep yourself cool and search for abetter girl for your life.
I am sure you deserve much better than this, buddy.
Bewst wishes in your search for a new girl.
2007-01-19 08:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so this girl seems to love u while she's busy loving others. think about it carefully. i guess she's only after ur money.may be she's just taking advantage of u.
don't waste urself on her, she's not worth ur atteniton. tell her strictly that u don't like her having affairs wid the others. if she agrees, great, but if she doesn't then be friends with her but stop taking her seriously. remember the world is full of babes.
2007-01-26 06:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she not loves u. it will hurt u but thats true . oh don't waste ur time by thinking about her . if she really thinks about ur feeling she never does that afffairs with another guys. u can not stay whole life by accepting the truth that she had many affairs ..that will spoil ur merraig life. Now bro just think n take decision urself.
2007-01-26 16:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by pankil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sam, only hear wht ur heart said
if she is still in love with u
so u hav to go ahead with her
n
just say her
now u r only 4 me.
I trust u n u hav to do so.
if c agree dn gud luck 4 ur future.
2007-01-19 08:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by PK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she doesn't want to settle down with one guy. The question is, will she ever? If you think she will, you can wait till she's ready, but if you think she won't well you're on a hiding to nothing.
You can't make someone settle down to a monogamous relationship, they have to want to.
If you think she won't settle down, you have to move on and get on with your life or be forever frustrated by her multiplicity of relationships.
2007-01-19 08:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so simple avoid ths grl i knw ths s nt so easy bt u should hv to try fr ths b'cz she used u just fr time pass & nthng else for ths u take help of ur frnds ur parents try to keep u busy in other works
dont wry frnd
2007-01-19 08:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by urmila j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to forget her is to find another who would be more
faithful to you than she has been. You'll feel more confident and comfortable about your situation, too.
2007-01-19 07:57:40 · answer #11 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋