what do i have to do to convince him to get married to me b4 he makes me pregnant!
he wants to make me pregnant without getting married and my family and me against songle mom stuff...! i can't leave him and can't force him to marry me what shall i do !
i really want to see his children from me:(
2007-01-18 23:48:06 · 23 answers · asked by sweet cherry78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can leave him
and its your body
HELLO you are your own person you can do what ever you want
if he is pushing you like this he does not care about you he only is a selfish person thinking of himself
and this will lead to you doing everything and im sure once you start having kids your not going to stop
get out now before its too late
2007-01-18 23:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your manner of thinking sounds very immature. I don't think that you have fully thought your options out. It's either pregnancy or marriage for you. What about education and being able to provide for your children without having to depend upon your family or welfare or government or handouts? What about condoms and STDs? Are you willing to tell others what this guy is or isn't doing behind your back? Are you the first one that no way no how can be lied to or used? Do you truly know him that well? How old are you? This concerns me deeply because there's a chance that children will be born to you and your type of reasoning. My God. My suggestion is to want patience and security in the form of a yearly income of over 50k. Does he have a home and car or will you be force to ride the bus or bum rides to take your children that you have to have to the doctor? If you aren't grown please focus on things such as a future that you will be proud of when you go back to your 10 year anniversary. Rather than not going because you hooked up with a loser and are regretting it.
2007-01-18 23:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're against the single mom stuff.....then you've answered your own questions. Ask him what kind of future he wants with you. Why does he want to make you pregnant without marrying you?? Answer that question, and you'll probably see that he doesnt really want the responsibility of caring for you. If he doesnt want that, how could he possibly care for one of his offspring.
Keep your legs closed
2007-01-18 23:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Soldier 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u think like that , u definately stupid...man is unreliable, they can give many excuses just to make u fulfill his desire and need...pregnant before married?? not way! if he is not responsible, how ? what can you do?tell him to married u, if he dun, try to let go of this relationship because you have the responsibility to make sure that the small innocent life deserve for his birth, not to suffer in this cruel cruel wolrd.so, think over as you are mature to make your own decision.good luck!
2007-01-18 23:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by ~~simply me~~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is saying all this and forcig you to do this then you dont need him. if he says he loves you thenhe wants to get you prgnant; but makesure he dosnt hurt you ;you two need to meet and let him no how you feel about gettin married ;if that dosnt work and he dosnt listen to what you have to say then you must b a fool for even going out with him; you must break up till you sort it out; hope this helps
2007-01-18 23:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by teri c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is marriage? A piece of paper, it really doesnt mean anything..... You dont want to be a single mom? Guess what, even if your married he can still leave you and you will still be a single mom...................Dont pressure him into doing what society says is right, your only gonna cause more stress into your relationship...............Do you really want that? No...................Just enjoy your relationship.....
2007-01-18 23:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge of your own body because if he does get your pregnant and dumps you, then guess what? You will be a single mom. Not good.....
2007-01-18 23:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both agree on what to do with ur life ,
Don't follow him around , just attach the marriage to the pregnancy.
2007-01-18 23:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well makes sure he is committed to you for a long term,and give him some conditions,if he wants to have a baby with you tell him to promise you that once you concieve his baby that marriage is the second priority ,and good luck
2007-01-18 23:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he respects you. Time to move on I think
my 2 cents worth anyway
2007-01-18 23:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋